Hello there! Call me Jon for now as thats not my true name, I'm just curious about this type of relationship and im looking to just have someone or multiple someone's to chat about this type of thing/relationship and possibly dive deeper into it.

About me:

I'm 6 foot tall, 240lbs with a dad bod apparently. I've got brown hair, blue eyes, and a fairly gentle but wild personality with the right person. I've been into kink for approximately 11 years, and as such I do have some experience with being a submissive and as a dominant, although I much prefer to be submissive to the right person. I'm very selective on who I allow to enter my life and get to know me, and I tend to only give back what's been given, meaning respect, time, attention, and taking initiative in anything. I've been told im too nice for my own good many times, which has lead to me having some strong trust issues, so for me building trust takes time. I'm a very loyal person in general and don't have many friends, however the ones I do have, I couldn't ask for better. I've been told im extremely complex but low maintenance and ive been told im very needy, honestly I just want to have engaging conversations.

My kinks are vast and wide and sometimes very specific, I will not engage in any for of play that involves making someone bleed, no scat play, no vomit, no passing out, nothing that will leave permanent or semi-permanent marks and no electrocution.

The type of domme I prefer are usually on the caring and nurturing side but I'm open to anyone who shows decent respect and care.

What I'm looking for:

I'm just looking to chat, not necessarily kink related but definitely will be included at some point. I would definitely prefer to talk to dommes or just females in general, and maybe eventually or possibly engaging in some sort of relationship with a female as I'm straight and im not interested in a relationship with males.

I would prefer to be treated like a human and not degraded upon first chatting, as respect is given to me, so shall I give it back.

I do my best to reply any time I see I've been messaged, however I do have a job that sometimes requires odd hours.

I hope to hear frome you soon if you've read this far, feel free to dm me 🙂