Back once again with the wholesomely freaky-strange behaviour. Previously posted on GFDPersonals and I really enjoyed it, so I figure why not give the universe another shot to make something tremendous happen?

The Dream
Finding amazing chemistry and deep connection is the goal here. The kind of chemistry that sparks instantaneous mutual interest, attraction and understanding, followed by hours of effortless conversation. Ideally we’re so enamoured on the first date that we nearly get hit by a bus – that kinda chemistry. I want to find the one. Someone I can relish all the good stuff with. Weekends away, trips to the cinema, gigs, going for meals, getting out in nature. Holding hands a lot and just marvelling at one another like proper weirdos. All that cute couple sh*t. I look forward to all that good stuff. I’m eternally positive and feel no different in this pursuit.

About Me
Personality:A compassionate type; Acting in a principled way, being kind to those less fortunate, standing up for those less capable, treating people well, and being thankful for your good fortune is a fundamental part of life for me. Very much spiritually inclined – in stark contrast to posting in this gloriously perverted recess of the internet, I know. I love deep chats with likeminded people and hearing about people’s passions and interests. I’m fairly socially confident, but in bearable way, honest. Friends and family describe me as friendly and insatiably passionate, with a handful hobbies and interests. I love pouring myself into subjects and take great pride in everything I do. I’ve a good old fashioned weird sense of humour and don’t take myself too seriously. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm comfortable being candid and vulnerable. Not much of a social media user or a pouty selfie-taking type. I’m a huge animal lover (pet pics welcome), and love walks in nature and just being present.

Appearance:Fairly well dressed, clean and tidy, fair hair, tall, and in decent shape; not a musclebound god by any means, but enjoy lifting weights a few times a week. I hate to do it but I’m gonna hit myself with a number to make things easier. I suspect I’m an 8-8.5… Yep, just balked while typing that. I’m not the dude who goes around branding people with numbers in that way. Ever. But as much as I prioritise connection, I understand ballpark attraction counts to a degree and probably helps reduce the chances of disappointment by getting that out of the way.

You
Ideally 25-30

Personality: Kind, compassionate, and fun loving. I often click with people who come across as sweet or polite and who are positive, warm, energetic and talkative. You are a lovely effervescent creature with your own quirks. For example, If you snort when you laugh or speak in tongues while sleeping… I’ll probably love it. You don’t take yourself too seriously and don’t mind being a bit goofy and having a laugh.

It’d be awesome to meet someone who’s also into lifting or their own active pursuit so we can share that enthusiasm and spur each other on. Having gratitude for your health and appreciating the positive benefits of activity on mental and physical health is something I’d love to share with my partner. Having said that, all in moderation; I love fermenting on the sofa and inhaling a donut while convincing myself I could make it as a top-tier Blood Spatter Analyst after watching The Staircase for the 5th time.

Appearance: All styles and vibes welcome. I think there’s something to appreciate in every individual. It all comes down to the unique appeal of a person. I confess I find curves to be particularly gorgeous. Broadly speaking I would say average to curvy or ‘womanly’ in body type with a healthy appearance would be fantastic. Being fair haired myself, I tend to find other hair types slightly more magnetic.

The Sexuals
I’m not a casual sex type of guy. For whatever reason I’ve never been interested in or comfortable with casual sex. I’ve always inherently wanted to connect with someone first. So no chance of me getting all weird and asking you to dump yogurt on your feet or whatever 2 messages in. Arguably as a result of this approach, I’ve had far fewer partners than most people. It’s hard to articulate without sounding like an arsehole, but I'm pretty sure people assume I’ve had more partners than I have based on the way I look or due to my socially confident vibe. So having not dated in a while due to tending to other areas of life, I have some mild apprehension and low confidence when it comes to returning to sexual relationships. Arguably this is something I could not mention, cross my fingers, and hope I pull it out the bag when the time comes. But as part of acting in a principled way and being decent, when it comes to relationships and asking another person to invest time in you, it only feels right to be forthright about this stuff in order to avoid wasting someones time.

Which brings me here. Essentially I would love to find a partner who connects with my post and is seeking a serious relationship with initially a normal dynamic, but who has curiosity about a very loving, affectionate and doting GFD dynamic. Personally I would feel like an absolute monster if I met someone I connected with but for whatever reason I wasn’t feeling confident in the bedroom and for this to cause problems or to come as a surprise. I'd say one aspect that's played a part in my dating cadence is that I've never felt confident taking the reins sexually. So I think it would be great knowing my partner would enjoy taking control in the bedroom if I wasn’t feeling totally confident after some time. Meeting someone who would be open to exploring this dynamic would be great. I don’t yet know what this dynamic would entail should it come to fruition. Maybe you have no interest in this dynamic but another aspect of my story relates to you and you feel you’re compatible for another reason. Maybe you have experience in the field, maybe not. But if for example a FLR or a heavily degrading, humiliating, dominant role was your sole and non-negotiable interest, then I’m not the man for you. Likewise if you’re all horned up and wanting to get into sexual talks straight away, I’m not the guy. In fact, aside from clearing up any queries or clarifying what aspects you're interested in, I would prefer to park any sexual talk for quite a while so we can get to know each other.

Personally, I find if someone is over-eager to start sexual talk, it brings into question the authenticity of the interest in me as a person and makes me wonder if I’m essentially just a vehicle about which someone is looking to satisfy their kinks. The human experience is this incredibly immersive thing, and despite our best efforts to act with good and mindful intentions, we're ultimately a bunch of horny chimps who’ve spent too long on the internet gorging on sexually charged content. So I think it’s best to avoid sexual talk for a while to avoid waking up in 4 years time in a sticky, post-horny daze and realise we don’t like each other as much as we thought. Haha! I want sex to serve as a means to share affection with a partner I cherish, and not for relationships to exist as a means to excuse venting sexual fantasies. So I’ll consider you responding in itself to essentially mean, “Wink-wink, nudge-nudge, we’re on the same page”. I want this dynamic to be a possibility further down the line, and for us to both prioritise seeking connection above all else and without sexual motives.

I’m not in a rush to send or receive pictures right away, but naturally we’ll need to do that after a little sniffing-out period. And needless to say based on the length of this post, I’m open to travelling within reason. I’m in the Liverpool / Manchester area, and up to an hours travel would be ideal.

Despite how strange and taboo it feels pouring your heart out to a load of horny strangers on the internet, I feel positive about this! So if you’re reading and feeling flabbergasted at how similar we are, please get in touch.

And the most important question of all. Whats ya favourite dunking biscuit?

Thanks for reading

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TLDR; Looking for love > bad at the sex > probs let you fingerblast me x