What I'm looking for: I'm a submissive, but I'm rather new to exploring this side of myself, I only have some experience with online dommes, nothing in real life. I tend to be rather busy with my studies and social life so I've found it difficult to maintain an online dynamic/relationship. Hence, I'm looking for something in real life. I live in the Netherlands, preferably you live somewhere close enough to meet on a semi-regular basis.

Aside from kink, I always love meeting new people and making new friends, so just getting to know someone and hanging out is more than definitely on the table.

Appearance: I'm 23, 6'0" foot/1.85 m. I have long brown hair, greyish blue eyes, white skin, a beard and a relatively fit body type. I work out nearly every day, mostly focusing on weights and cardio. You can find two pictures of me here (heads up, one shirtless.)

SFW Interests: I enjoy reading a lot, mostly fantasy with the occasional mix of more classic literature and sci fi as well as the occasional romance. I play video games every so often and I run a weekly game of Dungeons & Dragons for my friends. I also like going out for drinks and meeting new people.

I'm currently going to a university of applied science for archeology.

As a heads up, I can get rather busy with my studies and social activities, so depending on the week I may only be available for a handful of days.

NSFW Interests: Being so inexperienced makes me open to exploring a lot of kinks, and unless I'm grossed out by the mere thought of something, I'm sure to give anything a try once. There are a few things I know I enjoy, or that I'm eager to try.

• Bondage: Any form of restraint from small and extreme. I've practiced self bondage with ropes.

• Praise: Good boy and other such lovely phrases.

• Humiliation: The other side of the coin. Recently discovered how much I enjoy it. If you're into this, feel free to throw in the occasional humiliating comment or name calling as we chat, honestly, go for the throat. Additionally the inherent shame as I get more comfortable with being a sub.

• Punishment: Pain, humiliation or some other negative repercussion for a task done wrong or a rule not followed.

• Voice: his is a strange one, and more of an attraction than a kink. I love people's voices, how someone sounds tends to be more important than what someone looks like for me.

I'm also interested in hearing your kinks and interests, and the sort of things you'd like to do. Relationships as this should be a two way street after all, perhaps a slanted street, inclined in the domme's favor.

Conclusion: Message me if interested, let me know what drew you to this post, and what you look for in a connection.