Hey, hi, hello! Welcome to my post!
I've been wanting to get back on track with my search for a dominant woman to build a meaningful connection with for quite some time now. I stepped out of the ring for a bit to work on myself as a person. Now that I'm happy with myself as a person, I'm back and ready to find someone special to enjoy life, kinks, and good conversation with.
I hope my post provides you with some insight into me as a person! Without further ado:
The basics:
- 30 years old.
- Single, monogamous, and straight. No kids and never married.
- I live in the Texas.
- I have my own home and do not have any roommates.
- I am politically liberal.
- I am gainfully employed and college educated.
- I give off strong Golden Retriever energy. I love to laugh and attempt to make others laugh as much as possible.
- I have blonde hair and blue eyes. My hair is typically on the shorter side with a hardpart. I'm a towering 5'7 and rocking a dad bod that is a work in process. I go back and forth having a beard and a being clean shaven.
Onto the good stuff:
I am a big animal person overall but dogs have a special place in my heart. If I’m not at work, you will typically find me somewhere, anywhere with my dog in tow. For those who are curious - unlimited dog pics are included as a package deal with me. (Talk about perks)!
I'm a self-admitted nerd. TV series and movies are where it's at in my book. I also enjoy gaming quite a bit. I love honing my photography skills. Humble brag here but I'd like to say I am pretty great on the grill. I've recently started to learn how to cook more involved dishes and I'm having a blast trying new things in the kitchen. If I am not doing any of the above, I am probably snuggled up on the couch reading a book.
I'm an outdoor enthusiast. Camping, hiking, lake days - you name it. I enjoy a nice glass of whiskey and occasionally dabble in the Devil's lettuce. I don't take life too seriously and I have a dry sense of humor.
Ooh, I almost forgot - unlimited dog pics are just one of the many perks in this package deal. But wait, there's more - Terrible dad-jokes, a metic-ton of funny videos sent your way, an attentive listener and more can all be yours for the low low price of a Reddit DM. (Terms and conditions apply)
Enough about me - what am I looking for?
Ultimately, I’m looking for someone to build a meaningful connection with. I am looking for a dominant or switch leaning dom oriented female, age 21 . Someone single, emotionally available, and kind.
I would love to hit the ever elusive trifecta and find someone to connect with on an emotional, intellectual, and physical level. No kink-shaming here but to save us both time, I am not looking for a quickie session online.
In regards to the dynamic that I am after - I am seeking a normal vanilla relationship, with a consistent undertone of Femdom in our daily life.
I am open to sharing photos, talking on the phone, and video calling. I would need my partner to be open to this as well once trust is established.
I would LOVE to find someone semi-local to me but I am open to online. I do want to express that I would eventually want to meet up. I have no interest in a strictly online relationship that never leads to meeting in real life.
Okay, okay maybe a little more about me - about me as a sub:
I am experienced as a sub and within the D/s scene as a whole. I am secure in my desires and will not be running for the hills after one session. My last partner became my girlfriend and having someone I care about in real life to share the Femdom dynamic with only reinforced my longing to be a sub.
The basics of me as a submissive:
- I'm enthusiastic & eager to please.
- I'm truly committed to do anything and everything in my power to please you.
- I'm very open to trying new things.
- I'm open emotionally and I hope you are too.
- I'm not bratty.
- I'm always eager to learn.
- I've been told I am very vocal during play.
- My hard limits consist of: blood, extreme pain, permanent, sounding, blackmail, and Findom.
I have an ever-growing collection of toys. If you’ve never tried drunkenly searching for and purchasing toys - 10/10 - I highly recommend it. I now have almost all of the “essentials” for a Femdom dynamic - woohoo. This includes a couple of Lovense toys that can be controlled from anywhere - what a time to be alive.
I don't want to completely dive into the wonderful world of kinks and desires on this post as I would like to get to know one another before we go down that road. I will say I lean more towards gentle Femdom overall. With that being said, I do understand the need to be on the same page on some non-negotiable kinks you may have so I will share some of my interests (hopefully this list grows over time as we try new things together) -
In no particular order - Pegging, Denial, Orgasm Control, Chastity, Facesitting, Bondage, Body Worship, Moderate Pain, Humiliation, Domestic Servitude (doing your chores, cleaning, etc), Power Exchange. This is far from the full list, I have one of the larger kinks lists saved that I'm happy to share if we have chemistry.
Regardless of my kinks, my number one desire is pretty simple - I want to learn and explore with each other to discover what we like, without the pressures of society’s norms.
The end:
If you made it to the end of this short novel - thank you! Please don't be put off by the wall of text above, I do not expect a short novel back.
Please DM me if you are interested! Please tell me a little about yourself, your interests, and what you are looking for in your first message.
Thank you for your time! (:
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