My job sends me all over the country. I am one of the more experienced contractors who can do everything. so at work, I run crews, train new people, train foreman, and get sent on weird tasks. It is really fun and I love it but makes it hard to date. I care a lot about my health and always make sure I am in good shape. In general, I wouldn't say I am a homebody or love going out. If I see something fun I will do it, otherwise I am at home reading or watching some anime. I can definitely be a bit of an adrenaline junkie but I have mellowed out a lot. There are still so many cool things I wanna do, Like scuba diving around an underwater aircraft carrier. I also like to name pets after foods. I haven't succeeded in getting any pets named after food yet, but I will one day!

Now for my kinky side. As I get older, I don't really care about one particular play or feel the need to push my limits. I am looking for the connection and bond, the level of intimacy you get from giving them control regularly for months. The familiarity of being able to know everything about each other. My main turn is seeing my partner getting turned on by me. As a sub, I think my job is to make my dom life as easy and fun as possible. I like to clean my dom apartment or our house. I wouldn't say I get off on it. I love it when it's treated as very soft teasing. For example, if I am already horny you whisper in my ear " If you do the dishes you can worship my ass before the movie". Maybe put on some yoga pants and make a point of walking around, then I get a min of kissing your yoga pants-covered butt and spend the rest of the night being normal. I could happily do every chore in the house if my dom wanted to make it fun. I feel like a lot of subs don't communicate that properly. I can enjoy a lot of types of play so the fun can be a very wide range of options with very little effort haha;P

Now if you should message me. I am looking for a long-term relationship that will move to in-person. I can move so location isn't an issue. be serious about wanting to move forward. I will ask for a video call for verification. I wanna meet relatively soon in person. it's the holiday season I have a lot of time off work. if I like a domme I will fly across the country to have some coffee and hang out. I don't mind taking a chance to invest in the future.