Hi there!

I hope your day is going well!

I'm looking for a woman to chat with about life, hopes, dreams, and, eventually if it feels right, begin a long term romantic D/s relationship.

I'm not looking to rush into anything right away and would very much prefer to start slowly and get to know each other first and see how things go.

Also, while I am open to online connections, I would prefer them to be within the USA and at least have a reasonable chance of meeting in person eventually. So please be open to that.

Who I am seeking

I'd like to meet someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises but isn't afraid to be vulnerable if she needs to be. I am hoping to meet someone who's primary dominance style is gentle and playful with a focus on romance and affection.

Someone strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging, supportive, kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and joke around would be ideal. And most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

Having similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for your own hobbies would be lovely. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things if you're willing to show me.

I'd never hope to meet someone who ticks every single box. Nobody is perfect and I would never ask her to be. At the end of the day I just want someone I can connect with. Maybe even find my best friend along the way.

About Me

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT Company and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood suburb of Portland, OR. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, Broad shouldered and on the bigger side. I have short brown hair and facial hair to match. Here's a pic of me for those interested

My pastimes include (but aren't limited to) gaming, Tinkering, movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

I'm a fairly even-tempered person. I'm easy to get along with and love being silly and playful. I'm also very affectionate and cuddly. I'd describe myself as an "Extroverted Introvert", My primary love languages are Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. I'm also a decent conversationalist and have been told I'm very funny and charming.

I'm very handy and a problem solver. I'm strong, and I am comfortable working on computers and cars. I also keep a clean and cozy house. More than anything I love feeling useful and helpful and I try to find ways to embody that as much as I can.

NSFW

If you are dead set on having detailed information about my kinks and limits beforehand as a means of gauging interest and compatibility here is a link to a list - I'll leave it to you on whether or not you want to look at it. I usually prefer to talk about this stuff organically, But I know some people prefer to have the information up front.

My Kinks and limits

Please keep in mind that none of the stuff on the K list are "Must Haves" for me and I would very much prefer to defer to the preferences of my Domme. It would be nice to have at least a few of these things in common, but excluding something on the K list isn't going to be a dealbreaker for me.

Thanks again for reading! If you have any interest or just have questions please let me know!