IMP Note: I’ve talked to a few people on here in the last couple of years but only 2 people have made a lasting impression. I will not give out details to respect their privacy but to make it less vague, they were from Slovenia and London (used to be in a live-in dynamic with an older mistress). If you are him, don’t hesitate to shoot a text and give this a second chance. Odds are, I’m counting on it.

Another important thing I want to mention is that I’m looking more for a slave than for a submissive. Also, if you are a switch or have the slightest urge to Dom, you are not for me.

What I’m looking for: A long term FLR with potential TPE or d/s dynamic with a male.

Appearance: Tall, muscular/ athletic (I have a thing for nice chest and abs) and conventionally attractive. I don’t care about ethnicity/race.

You: Well-rounded individual who is educated, has a good career (a smart mind is incredibly attractive to me), hobbies, friends and a decent social life.

I’m attracted to guys who look and are considered dominant / alpha males in public, at their job and by people in their circle. You will be submissive just for me and that will be our secret.

I don’t like yes-men. I want you to have your own mind and the balls to speak it, a good sense of humour, sarcasm/a quick wit and a healthy flirt to roast ratio. I want a friend first and then a slave/submissive.

My view on submission, dynamics and what I want from you:

I prefer for us to get to know each other better before we begin anything. That way, you learn and know exactly how to please me and I know your limits and boundaries and whether or not, or how much to push them. I want to be my true self without worrying if ill cross your limits. The more we know each other, the more I feel like I own you and the deeper and intense the power exchange becomes.

I want to use you for whatever pleases me. I want to train you and mould you to become the perfect partner for me so that you add value to my life and we can grow in this dynamic together.

I want my partner to be dependable and capable who can use his brain to anticipate my desires and act on them without being asked. I want you to please me and proactively make my life easier and comfortable.

I don’t want to be a Domme just in the bedroom. When we have built trust and connection over time, I would prefer to take this further to TPE.

Me: I’m Indian, in good shape and I’m considered fairly attractive. I’m college graduated, have a satisfying career, and I have my life together. I’m friendly, understanding and sweet when I’m not being mean. Also, being mean (in a jokey, sarcastic way) is how I flirt.

I’m in Oxford for the next year. So if you’re not from there, be willing to travel often. I’m open to travelling to places near Oxford too.

Kinks:

For me, domination is more psychological than physical. I’m small and I’m definitely not going to be able to overpower you. It is more about overpowering your mind, your ego and your own desires.

What we do, and how intense we are would usually depend on my mood, our energy in that moment and the day. The dynamic can include days of different intensities like -

-A chill date where we go out for dinner, watch a nice move, come home and cuddle -I use you as a chair to sit down and do make up on -You cook for me and serve me food naked (or only wearing an apron) while I tease you. Then, I sit at the table to have my dinner while you have yours kneeling by my feet. -I tape your mouth shut, tie you down and turn your ass red, blue and green before I fuck it. I will do these things with you and to you just because I can and because I want to.

If pain is not for you, I am not for you. I find amusement and immense pleasure in knowing how much you are willing to and can take for me. (This is not just for pain but for your general submissiveness as well. The more you do for me, the more pleased I am.) The happier you make me, the happier you are.

A few of the things that I am into are - sadism, spanking, humiliation & degradation, full body worship, training, service, oral, human furniture, collars, pegging. This list is not exhaustive, these are just kinks that I will not do without.

I’m not into femboys, sissies, or crossdressing. I respect limits and I don’t need your money.

I’ve put quite a lot of effort into this message so I expect the same from you. Tell me what submission means to you. Tell me what kind of dynamic you are looking for. Send me a message that is like an ad that you would post on this subreddit. Bonus points if it turns me on. Bonus points if it is with your sfw picture (body and face preferred but send what you are comfortable sending).

No nsfw pictures. Messages with a dick pic and low effort messages will be instantly ignored.

I prefer chat over messages. Let’s get to know each other ;)