I think often there's a lot of skepticism about the intentions of a domme posting an ad. I completely understand that, so I will start this ad in a slightly different way than in previous ones. I will share a bit of vulnerability: The last time I made plans to connect with a sub I met through a personal, he stood me up. We chatted right up until the moment I told him I left my place. I waited at the agreed meeting spot for 40 minutes and finally went home, feeling humiliated and confused. We never spoke again and it definitely made me want to quit this soul crushing search for a sub. Over the last two years, I've connected with various subs and had a wide range of experiences, from short term relatioship, ONS, failure to launch connections, toxic entanglements, to moments of pleasure I will probably always remember. It's those moments that set my soul on fire that keep me going, hoping that they'll be more than just a flash in the pan. Alright, now that every sub with their dick in their hand has left this post, let's get to it!

I'm 35, no kids and entangling myself from a primary relationship that's been dead for a long time. I'm a small business owner, so I can be busy at times and prefer submissives who are self-sufficient, have their own life/hobbies/goals and not incessantly needy. My main hobbies are writing (there's some samples on my profile), yoga, lifestyle events, make up/costumes and live music. I'm an extrovert and enjoy buzzing about going to breweries, sporting events, karaoke and food markets/festivals. I know a lot of subs are introverts and that's okay, as long as you're not a hermit/recluse, I'm sure we can find activities to connect on. I want a sub I connect with in and out of the bedroom, so please consider that if you're not interested in "going out in public." Don't worry, I won't drop a steak on the ground at a restaurant and tell you to drop down and eat... I'm more of a "make you wear a cage" TO the restaurant type :) *seriously though, all public play would be negotiated in advance.

My personality type on the Myers-Briggs is ENTP aka "The Devils Advocate." I'm Hispanic so I bring with me that fiery Latina energy that's spicy, sassy, sweet. I've also been called playful and "theatrical" haha but I don't mean that I bring drama, more that I'm always invested in my role.

Physically, I'm 5'4, light-skinned, dark brown eyes and I have a mohawk that I usually hide under a wig. Body type I'm somewhere between fit-thick and plus size. Can share pics on request but here's one to start with, plus a few sprinkled on my profile. https://imgur.com/a/agg0ZiW

My interests as a dominant range, but I would say I'm a cross between a Mommy Domme and a Pleasure Domme. Chastity, orgasm control, MDLB, CFNM, bondage/rope, tease/denial, edging/JOI, impact play, role play, spit, primal play/wrestling, CNC, anal play/pegging, deification (being treated as a deity), mental emotional sadomasochism... honestly, I just like being creative. I like to have fun and I will draw things out. I love feeding off sexual energy and often call myself a succubus. I'll leave you in chastity for days and then slowly torment you, make you squirm... because I love to hear you beg. I'll also praise you and tell you what a good puppy you've been. My style changes with the person, alternating between gentle and sadistic. What is most important to me is a mental/emotional connection... knowing that you wouldn't dare disobey me, that it is your absolute pleasure to obey and please me, that to be disobedient would cause you to feel shame. The connection and intimacy built between a domme and her sub is the most intoxicating feeling I've ever felt.. and that's why... subs, I just can't quit you. No matter how many times I've been used as a kink dispenser or disappointed by a potential sub, I keep coming back. That being said, I'm also at a point where I don't tolerate or look past red flags or anyone outside of my requirements.

You should be: between 25-40, living in Southern California (I'm in Orange County), not cheating or in some weird "my parter doesn't know" situation, willing to verify, and most importantly, I would hope that you know yourself. Understanding whether you're a submissive (who wants to serve/please/obey his domme) versus having submissive kinks (wanting a domme to do things TO YOU) is key. You sould be able to communicate effectively and be open/willing to explore the type of vulnerability and intimacy that comes with a deep BDSM relationship. I would prefer to get to know each other first and decide from there, together, what our ideal D/s dynamic looks like. I'm open to FWB, romantic relationship, platonic D/s, TPE, BUT not interested in "session-specific" play, please hire a Pro-domme if that's what you want. Lastly, If we've connected in the past, I prefer not to revisit old roads.

My title is Goddess and yes, you may address me that way, but I'm more than happy to earn that title. Please let me know where in SoCal you're located, your age, what spoke to you about this post and if you've seen Brokeback Mountain (I'm serious, haha). I will not respond to any low effort messages, out of state candidates, or replies that don't include the basics I've asked for here.