Hey there! I'm Charlie and I'm currently looking for love with a dominant woman (Age 21 - 35). I'm from the Netherlands, and hope to find something here or in the vicinity thereof. Open to online but only if there's the intention to moving things IRL!

Feel free to check out my fetlife: charlie_k if you want to see a few pics of me (SFW), a kinklist (Not SFW), and a more extensive profile (Also probably not SFW).

My Dream D/s Dynamic

In my dream dynamic with my Domme I want to make my her feel as if she was in heaven. I want to shower her with affection, adoration and attention to the point she expects nothing less, because she deserves nothing less. I belong to her, she is my owner. She owns my mind, my body, and my soul. I'll be there whenever she needs me. If she needs comfort after a rough day. To hang out and talk about our passions, dreams, or utter nonsense together. To play a game, watch a movie, make food, or go for a hike together. To just be there to cook and clean for her so she's at her utmost comfort. To make her feel adored and worshipped for hours just because she deserves it. To beg for mercy after she teased and denied me for what feels like eternity. To offer my body to her and be toyed with at her discretion and enjoyment. To be her beloved, loyal and obedient pet/boy/slave/plaything that is utterly and completely hers to play with and feels safe and vulnerable with her. I want to do anything in my power to please and serve her, aching for a taste of her presence, control, and praise - leaving us both in ultimate ecstasy.

About Me

I'm 1,97M (6'55), white/Caucasian, blond fluffy hair, average/slim build. I dress casually masculine. I can sometimes be a bit nervous or shy at first but once I'm comfortable around people I tend to get Golden Retriever energy and can talk your ears off, on top of being very easily excitable - and get along with most people easily. I’m calm, reflective, sensitive, kind, fun-loving and couldn't lie if my life depended on it. I’m a simple man; I’m not interested in having the nicest car on the block. All I want in my life is to enjoy myself, and try to help others with feeling better as well. I work in local government and have a background in psychology. My dream is to somehow help people indirectly with managing stress and their mental well-being. Related to this, I’m pretty left-wing as I don’t support politics that are in favour of human suffering.

I'm an introvert. I like a small party with friends and like-minded folks every now and then, but most of all prefer spending quality time with someone one-on-one, especially when that someone is my romantic partner. I really can't get enough of spending time or talking with someone I'm into; call it clingy or don't, but that's what I'm like - I want to be all yours, and I want you to be all mine.

I got a ton of things I enjoy doing. I love adrenaline and I love relaxing. Martial arts? Snowboarding? Surfing? Skydiving? Rollercoasters? Sign me up! Going for hikes, playing video games, cuddling during our favorite movie, baking, making food together and spend the evening swapping stories, play boardgames or tabletops, or just chilling while wrapped in a blanket? That's metal. If you want an indication of what my sense of humor is like - check out 'Cards Against Humanity' or the show 'It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia'.

Then very briefly about the sexual things

• I've had a couple of brief relatively SFW experiences within the realm of kink and am very certain that I'm mostly into gentle variations of Femdom where there is a lot of mutual love and not so much humiliation. (Though a slight edge of degradation is kinda fun if it's in a loving manner). I want us to be kinky lovers, most of all.
• I find the psychological aspect to be the most important. I get all warm and fuzzy inside when I think about being a partners beloved sub/pet/plaything and making you feel good, comfortable, and empowered like you deserve (and hopefully get rewarded in the process). I want to build you up in every aspect, whether that's physically, sexually, or mentally. For me, satisfying your kinks and desires is the most important to me. I love doing things for a partner, it's one of my love languages (the others being physical touch & quality time).
• I'm naturally obedient, and I'd like to serve with my entire heart and a lot of enthusiasm. I am not a brat, and I want to be all yours for the taking, in and outside of the bedroom.
• Check my kinklist for more details, but if you're very much into receiving rimming and other forms of body worship - I can guarantee we're a good match kinkwise.
• Unless they're limits I'm actually very much into or at the very least curious about most kinks within Femdom, just ask! I think this is a nice segue into...

Limits

Again, check my kinklist on fetlife or simply ask me after we've been chatting for a while, Here's a brief rundown however. - I'm monogamous and straight, I don't do poly/cuckold/forced bi/open relationships. On either side. No exceptions. - No scat, vomit, blood. - No Extreme torture (intense pain like ballbusting etc.) - Public humiliation / Public Exhibitionism (I don't like bothering other people with our kinky fun, though doing things in secret in a public place is a different story!) - Body shaming / Bigotry

Now about who I'm looking for:

Someone who: - is 21–35 years old. - doesn't smoke tobacco. - is monogamous and interested in something serious with long-term potential - doesn't have kids - is not an anti-vaxxer. - practices hygiene - is a full Domme (there's not a dominant bone in my body so taking charge is not something I'm comfortable doing - also outside of the bedroom)

If you managed to read this wall of rambling to the end, hopefully that means I've made a good impression on you. If that's the case, then please send me a message and maybe we'll feel enough of a spark to grab a coffee or a bite to eat together and go from there! I’d love to know what your favorite dessert is, always looking to be inspired in improving my cooking/baking! :)

P.S: If you're also from NL, feel free to message me in Dutch!