Hi there!

I hope your day is going well!

I'm looking for a woman to chat with about life, hopes, dreams, and something more if we click on that level. My ultimate goal is to find a partner for a monogamous relationship. But I'm also not looking to rush into that. I would prefer to start slowly and get to know each other first.

If you're new to kink and interested in exploring your dominant side, or if you're experienced and seeking someone who is equally eager to learn and grow I may be a good fit for you!

Also, while I am open to online connections, I would prefer them to be within the USA and at least have a reasonable chance of meeting in person eventually. So please be open to that.

Appearance, Hobbies, and What I Bring to the Table

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood suburb of Portland, OR. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, Broad shouldered and on the bigger side. I have short brown hair and facial hair to match - Here's a pic of me for those interested

My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or Video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), Tinkering (Fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices.), movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

I'm a fairly even-tempered person. I'm easy to get along with and love being silly and playful. I'm also very affectionate and cuddly. I'd describe myself as an "Extroverted Introvert", meaning I can hold my own most social situations but I do need time to myself to recharge. My primary love languages are Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. I'm also a decent conversationalist and have been told I'm very funny and charming.

I'm very handy and an adept problem solver. I have a working knowledge on how to fix computers and other electronics. I am capable of car repair and maintenance (To an extent) and I am naturally strong. I also keep a clean house and try to foster comfortable environments in the spaces I occupy.

More than anything I love feeling useful and helpful and I try to find ways to embody that as much as I can.

Who I am seeking

I'd like to meet someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises but isn't afraid to be vulnerable if she needs to be. Someone strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. She is also kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and joke around. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

I don't particularly have a preference when it comes to the physical appearance of a potential partner. I'm much more interested in emotional and intellectual connection and companionship. Odds are our personalities click I'll find you attractive.

Having similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for your own hobbies would be lovely. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things if you're willing to show me.

I'd never hope to meet someone who ticks every single one of these boxes. Nobody is perfect and I would never ask her to be. At the end of the day I just want someone I can connect with. Maybe even find my best friend along the way.

A Note About Communication

While I don't need constant communication nor would I ever demand your attention, I would ask that you be ok with a high standard of communication. If you need time to yourself for a day, a week, or even a month. Or if you just aren't interested in talking anymore, please tell me. Either way I'll give you the space you need without question. All I ask is to be given some kind of clear communication. I promise to always do the same for you.

Thanks again for reading! If you have any interest or just have questions please let me know!