Hi!

I'm a submissive cis straight man hoping to find a relationship with someone interested in kink play. The fantasy of a woman being more powerful than me is something that’s had a deep pull on me ever since I was a very young kid, I think even before I knew what sex was. Unfortunately for me (and honestly society at large) a man enjoying bowing down to a woman felt wrong and embarrassing as a kid. Growing up I conditioned myself to hide this part of me to avoid being made fun of for it. Opening up and becoming more secure with these desires has been a slow process but one I'm much more focused on now than I’ve ever been before. I'm still a relative newbie to this, I've never done any sort of kink in person, but I know for sure this is the type of relationship I want.

Some more about me, I'm a white guy, 6'4". I have brown hair and blue eyes. I keep in pretty decent shape though I'd say I'm more thin than muscular. Very friendly and emotionally mature / stable. As far as kinks, I think I'm probably more on the gentle side of the spectrum (chastity and CBT do not seem like a turn on, though I'm open to exploring). Facesitting and pegging seem super hot. A really core part of my personality is getting fulfillment from bringing joy to others. In other words, I'm really driven to learn what you like. The more I can please you and help you feel like a goddess the more excited I'll be.

Again, my goal is to find a long term relationship with a partner who enjoys this sort of dynamic.

Outside of kink, I love to share knowledge and learn from others. Some of my favorite topics are indie bands, film & tv, coffee shops, and everything to do with human computer interaction. I'm a designer turned software engineer professionally. I play badminton recreationally at a somewhat high level and enjoy cooking, photography, hikes, traveling. I've been 30 countries, most of them in the last decade.

I feel like this should go without saying, but in case it doesn’t: Like any normal person, I respect boundaries. I will not push any kinks or fetishes on you. You don't owe me anything at any point i.e. I won't be upset by you chatting with me and then ghosting in the middle of the conversation.

(Not interested in trans-females, sorry. You gals are great but it’s not my thing.)

Hoping to hear from you via DM or Reddit Chat. :)