34 [m4a] #atlanta georgia: bi male with irl submissive experience

About me: I am a single person ready to find my forever D to sate my personal need to be on the right side of the slash. I am looking for a longer term partner based situation.

SFW: I am a degreed engineer by trade who is science minded at work. For play, I'm a semi-professional musician with symphony work experience and spend most of my free time appreciating performance art. I love art in all its forms, cooking, video games, music, novels, stage, anime, movies, and dance. Im a theatre and band kid that never grew out of it. I race sail boats to both get me outdoors and facilitate lots of travel and seeing the world. Physically I'm 5'11, look best in a soft winter pallette, take care of my skin and present masculine. Short brown beard with blonde highlights and a nice smooth head framed by hazel eyes in glasses. Pics on request, sfw only until trust is built. I go to the gym often though I am not "fit" at the moment but I am taking physical fitness seriously in my life. I would like a partner to participate in my gym habit, especially one that likes to make a kink game out of goals.

What I'm looking for: A long term relationship led by a dominant. I connect best with femme presenting people, though this is more personality based than purely physical. I would prefer irl but I am open to online play. My caveat to online relationships would be that I would prefer longer contact time and scenes, not one-off encounters.

My ideal partner: Single, preferably childless and monogamous outside any heavily negotiated scenework. My partner can be male, female, trans, enby, it doesn't matter to me. I am usually attracted to the person first, the body second, though I am weak in the knees for gingers. I would like to move to IRL long term so US east coast or central would be ideal. That being said I am looking for reasons to move to the pacific NW.

My kinks: FLR, tpe, lifestyle, cbt, masochism, rules and structure, spanking and impact, gentle humiliation and embarrassment, tease and denial, chastity, pegging, bondage, rope bunny, water sports and of course I'm super horny for emotional communication and SSC mindsets.

Limits: findom, heavy emotional degradation, blood, scat, cutting, breath play, age play (below 18)

I am willing to provide pictures to anyone that connects with me to verify and I prefer initial contact via reddit. Dms or chat, whichever strikes you! Hope to hear from you!