Me: I’m 34, in the veterinary field. Located 30min outside of Boston. Full-time, stable job. Nonsmoker, social drinker and 420 friendly. I’m a leftist and atheist. No kids, and I absolutely do not want them. I am plus-size, 5’4”, proportional curves, but I am healthy and reasonably active. I have red hair, glasses, pale skin, tattoos, nose piercings. I love to cook, bake, draw, write, play video games, listen to records, and hang out with my friends and my 2 cats. I’m vegan, but don’t care what you eat as long as you’re willing to try my cooking! I’m into fantasy fiction, RPGs, all kinds of nerdy stuff. I am looking for a serious long-term relationship—ultimately, I am looking for my life partner. I value open and frank communication, and I believe that being honest and being kind are not mutually exclusive. I don’t play games. I am a little shy in person at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m very warm. I have a lot of love and affection to give someone, and physical touch and making food for people is very much a love language for me. I have a moderately high sex drive.
My kinks: Femdom (mostly gentle, but I am interested in light impact play—spanking, crops, etc), mommy dom, pegging, prostate play, edging, orgasm control, overstimulation/post-orgasm torture, bondage, teasing, lactation, breast suckling, breast worship. I will clarify that while I’m very much into breast suckling/the idea of lactation, it’s more about the nurturing and intimacy, it is NOT an age-play or infantilization thing for me at all. No hate for what people are into, it’s just not for me.
Along with ageplay, other hard limits include: scat, exhibitionism, group/poly, maledom, receiving anal. Otherwise, I’m pretty GGG—pleasing my partner pleases me.
You: Between the ages of 32-45. If you are 30 or younger, I have zero interest, sorry. The boring basics: you should have full-time stable work, your own place, be a nonsmoker, no dogs (I am super allergic), no organized religion, no conservatives/moderates. Hoping you are: Kind, intelligent, honest, funny, you love cats, nerdy, have good taste in media, you’re emotionally in touch with yourself and not afraid to be vulnerable with me. It’s ok if your sex drive isn’t quite as high as mine, but if you have a low libido it won’t be a good match. I am not super picky about body type, but I want a partner who takes care of themselves--that doesn't mean thin, it means taking good care of your body and eating a balanced diet. Good hygiene is a must. I'm not into lots of or long facial hair.
I have been burned by long-distance before—people can hide so much from you when they live far away. If you are not located within an hour or so of Boston, I would be cautious unless you were planning to relocate here. Willing to exchange pics after talking. I am very weary of online dating, but I really want to find my person.