I am POLYAMOROUS and DEMISEXUAL, please READ EVERYTHING HERE too, and do NOT message me if you cannot respect this or follow instructions!

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I am new to this, so please keep that in mind and know that I am not going to rush into accepting anyone as my sub until I personally feel comfortable. Being demi means that I need a strong emotional bond before I can take things to the next step, so I need someone who is patient and willing to work on building trust with me before bringing up anything sexual.

You are welcome to check my other posts to learn more about me before contacting me!

ABOUT ME:

• 35 - Cisfemale - She/They - Demi - Poly - USA - Mixed Race - Plus Size
  • My biggest focus right now is learning how to make an rpg or life sim type of game, as well as gaming in general so if you aren't into either of those things then you might not have much fun with me because I spend most of my free time recording games or playing them. This doesn't mean I won't make time for a sub who is interested in LTR and does their best to be cute / pleasing, I would enjoy learning more about your interests and goals.
  • I'm sarcastic at times, but it's always in a joking manner. I will never make a joke at someone else's expense. I love to make people laugh and I giggle a lot, so hopefully you'll enjoy being around me on voice chat!
  • Big heart, lots of love and affection to give, but only after we've become official because I don't want to get my hopes up over someone who's looking for something easy. I am not easy.
  • I am a gentle domme so I do not want to humiliate or degrade anyone, boundaries are deeply important to me, and I want us to trust each other. I want to be cared for and I will spoil my loves very much so. I will never force anyone to do anything that they don't consent to, just as I would expect others to respect me and treat me right.
  • I love to talk every day and I love attention, affection, affirmations, and sweet nothings. So if you can't say positive things without being horny about it, then I am not the Domme for you.
  • I want to be cherished and respected, if I'm going to invest my time and energy then I expect you to do the same for me. Show me why you like me and tell me you appreciate me, it really helps me see that you care for ME as myself rather than viewing me strictly as a Domme.
  • You're going to see that I care a lot about other people as I run a few Discord servers and I'm always running around trying to fix things or help people. I can be busy at times, but I will always put my subs first whenever they need me. I need to protect my heart though so I will not give it away freely anymore.
  • Also, I love giving pet names! I'm super fluffy and I want my subs to feel special, and good about themselves overall.
  • Please don't talk to me about how you're horny unless I've given you permission to do so. I'm sick of men doing this to me.
• Here is my voice verification in case you want to hear what I sound like.
• I'm married and will not leave my spouse for anyone, so don't even ask.
  • That being said, I will take things just as seriously as any other romantic partnership, so please communicate with me and try your best to stay in contact if you are interested in LTR / FLR.
• I currently have a male sub (40; straight and ace-leaning) who is courting me, so it's very possible that we could play together (if you are a woman) so please let me know when you contact me.
  • If you are open to playing with my other subs in general, or have a preference on gender, then tell me! We might be be able to explore and have a lot of fun together, if you wish to.
• Kinks: Dressing Up (where you take pictures for me), Cosplay, Roleplay, Praises, and Begging.
  • (Curious About: Chastity, Clothed Domme/Naked Sub, and Orgasm Control)
• Limits: Anything illegal, dirty (scat/watersports), abusive (emotional, mental, physical, verbal), ageplay, diapers, and feet worship.

MY PREFERENCES:

• Age Range must be between 25-45, I prefer fit/slim/tall body types but I may fall for a teddybear depending on personality. It's possible for us to just focus on voice though!
• I have a strong preference for women, but there's still a chance that a man might charm me.
  • Women: I love pretty femmes who enjoy dressing up and have a sweet princess vibe overall, bonus points if you like roleplaying and/or cosplaying. You might be able to get away with being a little bratty, but please be mindful in the early stage of us getting to know each other.
  • Men: I love (well-dressed) himbos and golden retriever types, bonus points if you're into programming games and playing games with me in general. You should be a good boy who wants to please his domme, rather than acting out of turn or pushing boundaries like a princess might behave.
  • Enbies: If you lean either way, or even like to switch things up, then you may have an even better shot than men do.
• If it's not already obvious, I have a thing for those who dress nicely and I would love to pick out outfits if you enjoy showing off for me. Roleplaying can be a lot of fun and we can try scenes where I'm either a good Queen or an evil Queen. 😉 Orgasm control and chastity cages may be able to take center stage too.
• I do not have an interest in meeting in person since it takes such a long time to build up trust with me, so please don't put pressure on me about this.

YOU (AS A PERSON):

• Kind & Patient - It is an absolute must that you are a kind and patient person because I'm not sure how we would move forward if you are rude or try to make me move faster than I'm willing to. I need to go through a vetting process just to be sure that you're who you say you are and that this isn't some silly, casual kink dispenser kind of thing for you.
  • It's also important to me that you have boundaries, limits, proper communication skills and good mental health. I am not a therapist or a mommy domme, so I do not want to be treated as either one. If you can't communicate or express your intentions, wants, and needs then we're not going to be compatible because I can't trust you at that point.
• Not Homophobic & Not Racist - I will not play with Republicans or anyone who doesn't support BLM and LGBTQIA since I do not tolerate hatred.
• Ethically Non-Monogamous - If you aren't single, then I require that your partner knows about this situation. I'm polyamorous and I'm only okay with people who are ethically non-monogamous.
• Voice Verification - You're willing to send me a voice recording to introduce yourself and show me that you're a real person, please don't forget to state your reddit username just as I did in my own recording.

MESSAGE ME, DO NOT SEND A CHAT REQUEST:

Send me a message and please put effort into it, I will be very picky about who I choose to respond to. I'm saying this now because I was overwhelmed by the amount of low-effort messages sent my way when I posted an ad last month. I will ignore you if you do not send me the information requested below!

1. Name, Age, Gender, Pronouns, Marital Status, Sexual Orientation, Personality Description (or list personality traits that define you), Hobbies/Interests, and Voice Verification message if you're brave enough to make one for me.
2. What does femdom mean to you? Have you educated yourself at all? Could you show me something educational (preferably from youtube) that resonates with you in some way?
3. What did you like about my ad? Why are you interested in me and what would you want from me?
4. Do you want to be part of a triad or quad situation if another sub is interested? Please let me know if you like the idea of FMM, FFM, or FFF if you're open to it! It's okay if you're not, so no pressure!
5. Anything else you'd like to mention or think that I should know?
6. I will speak to you either on reddit or discord, IF I trust you, so please let me know if you're available for the latter.