Hello! I am experienced with kink but not with being a domme, so I am looking for someone with whom I can explore my fantasies. I don’t care if you’re experienced or brand new, as long as you’re willing to have fun with me while I learn. I’m not really looking for someone who wants to switch—I have a few wonderful dom/mes in my life and am not looking for more.

Things I love or want to explore: - Praising you for being such a good boy/girl/entity of another gender - Making you feel as cozy, safe, and comfortable as I can so that I can take my time exploring your body - Having you bury your face in my tits while I use my hands to get you off - Edging you until I understand all of your body’s wonderful reactions - Putting you in chastity and then exploring all the ways to make you cum - I’m curious to explore light pain, such as spankings, nipple clamps, and hair pulling, though this is far from a must

I am not into: - Brats—I enjoy playfulness, but I find that brattiness inhibits clear communication - Being a kink dispenser—please don’t call me Mommy in the first message, and expect me to immediately sext. Demanding immediate emotional labor is unattractive - Exclusively online relationships—playing online can be fun, but I want to be able to meet in person, too

I would like to find a consistent relationship. I’m open to something casual or romantic; however, I don’t tend to enjoy playing with those I don’t like as people, so I would like to have enough in common that we can at the very least maintain a friendship. I am very creative and inquisitive, and love learning how to do or make new things. I have a degree in art, and mainly focus on sculpture. For my day job, I work in the public sector in a legal department (not a lawyer [yet!]). I am about as far left as one could get, but really reject the areas where far left starts to circles back to the far right (anti-vaxxers, crunchy-at-the-expense-of-science, crystals, hating the establishment so much you don’t vote). I’m much more about mutual aid, fostering communities, getting rid of cops, creating affordable spaces where everyone is cherished.

I am short (5’1”), white, and I have a soft belly and thighs. While attraction is of course important, I don’t have particular preferences for a partner’s gender, body type, height, or anything else. I am seduced mostly by someone’s mind.

Sometimes I get a little overwhelmed with messages, so please be patient!