Hi,

with dating-apps being the absolute shitshow that they are, I've finally decided to give this sub a go instead. Since we're all very busy people, I'll keep things brief (me, now a few hours in the future; hah.). If you're interested, drop me a message and we'll go from there.

(Edit: The one time I'm going to write a longish post, reddit messes up and posts it while I'm still editing. Cool. Thanks a ton, reddit. Gonna add the pics in a few.)

Bio

• 34, Male, 1.73m, 95kg
• Ambivert
• Currently on the chubby side, very willing to drop the weight again and have done so in the past
• Pictures:
  • A few years ago
  • Current

What I'm looking for

• I'd like someone to explore gfd with. I don't mind if you have no experience - might even slightly prefer that, actually - but you _should_ be confident about it being a kink of yours.
• It doesn't have to be gentle all the time. If you want to be rough, by all means, be rough. Severe pain, cbt, degradation and the like, however, do absolutely nothing for me. If that's your thing, I'm not your guy.
• Kink-wise, I'm open to try most things. So long as you visibly enjoy them, I'm pretty sure I'm going to enjoy them, too. I am, for example, not particularily into chastity but if you really dig that, I'm all for it.
  • If you absolutely need some examples; body-worship, praise, pegging, face-sitting, general acts of service, toys, etc.
  • Limits: scat, severe pain, permanent damage, events/parties (not really a limit, just not interested), anything financial (!)
• While something short-term is acceptable, I'd vastly prefer someone who'd, eventually, be willing to commit to an actual, monogamous relationship.
• In the beginning, just texting is fine. As mentioned above, I'm not the type to immediately demand a meeting. Once we're comfortable with each other, we can move to discord, voice-messages or the occasional phone-call and take things from there.
• I enjoy female dominance but I'm not looking for a truly female-led relationship. Outside of the metaphorical bedroom, you don't get to make decisions for me. I may consult with you and as my partner, I'll obviously value your input but the final decision will be mine and mine alone.

You

• Age 36 or below
• Single
• Either female or very femme looking mtf
• Aside from physical attraction, you should value and strive to build a (very) emotionally intimate connection with your partner
• A nerdy/dorky personality is a plus
• So is an alternative look. Piercings, tattoos, pixie- or undercuts, etc.
• Witty/sarcastic banter is a big part of your love-language
• Reader and/or gamer
• If long-term: no kids, no desire to have any anytime soon
• Your body type is not that important
  • Your face trumps everything else. As far as physical attraction is concerned, the only question that really matters is whether or not I'd like to wake up next to you. I'm pretty picky in that regard, though.
  • However; don't be morbidly (and thus unhealthily) obese
• No drugs, no excessive drinking. Smoking isn't great but... tolerable.
• Live-and-let-live mentality
• If you're autistic or suffer from mental illness, please be upfront about it

Me, aside from what has already been mentioned

• live by myself
• Single
• I work in IT, specifically as a software-dev
• I spend way, way too much time in front of screens
• I have way, way too many interests, all of which compete with one another
  • Art, i.e game art, technical art, fine art, painting, etc.
  • IT related topics, i.e coding, information-security, etc.
  • Electronics
  • Design, architecture, engineering
  • Learning to play the guitar
  • Lately: learning to cook
  • ...
• When I'm outside, I'm usually on a bike
  • Another interest; bike races, specifically ultra-endurance
  • If you happened to be interested in bike-packing ...
• I'm generally (and ironically) a much better person when I'm in a relationship
  • ... which is rare. Being picky AND intro-/ambiverted isn't exactly helping
• I either care a lot or not much at all
• Love animals. No pets, though. None planned, either.
• As far as personal taste is concerned ...
  • Movies: The Great Gatsby, Warrior, Braveheart, Dune, Drive, Shot Caller, Like Crazy, Legend ...
  • Series: Battlestar Galactica, the Expanse, Mr. Robot, Love, Death and Robots, The Night Manager ...
  • Books: The Expanse, The Three Body Problem, The Interdependency, The Southern Reach Trilogy, anything Lovecraft...
  • Anime/Manga (rarely): Berserk, Evangelion, Akira, Ghost In The Shell, Vampire Hunter D, Princess Mononoke (duh) ...
  • Music: day to day; metal. But also lots of other genres depending on my mood

That should be enough for now. As mentioned above; if you'd like to get in touch, drop me a message and include some pics of your own. I don't want to wast either of our time, so please send at least one picture of your face. Anything else will be ignored/blocked.