Because I'm looking to lock someone up and lock them down for life 😈

I'm 26, NB (AFAB), Black, married, poly, and dating separately. Grad student who works in social services. Physically I'm short, thicc, and present femme.

One of my biggest kinks is orgasm control. Whether that's post-orgasm torture until you're begging me to stop, or keeping you in chastity and teasing you with the hope of release only to dash those hopes for my own pleasure. I also enjoy, anal play (pegging, fishing, etc.), breathplay, and impact play. Here's a more thorough kink list.

I'm not interested in a 24/7 TPE, but I'm not against bringing the kinky dynamic outside of the bedroom. Chastity is the kink that gets closest to that for me. I still expect you to have independence and autonomy. I like to be caring, nurturing, and physically affectionate in my relationships, but I'm not a Mommy Domme. I'm not a brat tamer. I like someone who knows their place. I'm a firm believer in after care.

In vanilla life, I would probably be described as quirky, goofy/funny, and caring. I love all things horror, especially the psychological variety. I'll probably check out the film screenings in Salem this month. I also play a solid amount of video games, read manga, and watch anime. I have many weird niche interests. I just got a kinky tattoo that I'm super proud of.

I'm a switch but am satisfied with the dominant partner I currently have. I like to think that me being in touch with my submissive side makes me a better Domme.

Cohabitating is not on the plate for the next few years. My longterm goal is to live in a home which would have room for another partner to live there. I also am perfectly happy to have a partner who prefers to live alone or nests with another partner.

I'm looking for a long term partner first, someone I can settle down with. I'm not going to domme you on the first date. Calling me goddess or mistress is an instant turn off. You can just call me "D" or Sir. Please don't grovel.

You: 23-40. Submissive or a sub-leaning switch. Has previous experience subbing. Lives in/near the Metrowest area. Leftist. Childfree. I'm childfree by choice and am not interested in dating people who want kids or already have them.

If you message me, here are some questions to answer:

1. What are you looking for in a kinky relationship?

2. What is your experience with polyamory?

3. Do you mask and what are your COVID precautions? (I'm only looking to meet folks who still mask indoors at minimum)

I look forward to hearing from you 😊