Hi there!

I'm looking for a woman to chat with about life, hopes, dreams, and, if we click, to discuss the possibility of exploring a D/s dynamic. Someone Between 30 and 45 preferably, though being outside of this range is not a deal-breaker if the right person comes along.

If you're new and interested in exploring your dominant side I may be a good fit for you! I have little practical experience but I have a lot of knowledge and a fairly good idea of what I want out of a dynamic. I am also eager share what I know and learn new things.

Appearance, Hobbies, and What I Bring to the Table

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood suburb of Portland, OR. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, Broad shouldered and on the bigger side. I have short brown hair and facial hair to match - Here's a pic of me for those interested

I'm a fairly even-tempered person. I'm easy to get along with and love being silly and playful. I'm also very affectionate and cuddly. I'd describe myself as an "Extroverted Introvert", meaning I can hold my own most social situations but I do need time to myself to recharge. My primary love languages are Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. I'm also a decent conversationalist and have been told I'm pretty funny and charming.

I'm very handy and an adept problem solver. I have a working knowledge on how to fix computers and other electronics. I am capable of car repair and maintenance (To an extent) and I am naturally strong. I also keep a clean house and try to foster comfortable environments in the spaces I occupy.

More than anything I love feeling useful and helpful and I try to find ways to embody that as much as I can.

My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or Video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), Tinkering (Fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices.), movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

Who I am seeking

I'd like to meet someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises but isn't afraid to be vulnerable if she needs to be. Someone strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. She is also kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and joke around. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

I'd never hope to meet someone who ticks every single one of these boxes. Nobody is perfect and I would never ask her to be. All I ask is that you bring your whole self with you when we interact and I promise to do the same for you in return.

Someone who has similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies would be lovely. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things if she's willing to show me.

I don't particularly have a preference when it comes to the physical appearance of a potential partner. I'm much more interested in emotional and intellectual connection. Odds are our personalities click I'll find you attractive.

A Note About Communication

While I don't need constant communication nor would I ever demand your attention, I would ask that you be ok with a high standard of communication. If you need time to yourself for a day, a week, or even a month. Or if you just aren't interested in talking anymore, please tell me. Either way I'll give you the space you need without question. All I ask is to be given some kind of clear communication about where you're at and what you want/need. And I promise to always do the same for you.

NSFW

If you are dead set on having detailed information about my kinks and limits beforehand as a means of gauging interest and compatibility here are links to a couple robust lists - I'll leave it to you on whether or not you want to look at them. I usually prefer to talk about this stuff organically, But I know some people prefer to have the information up front.

My Kinks - My Limits

Please keep in mind that none of the stuff on the K list are "Must Haves" for me and I would very much prefer to defer to the preferences of my partner. It would be nice to have at least a few of these things in common, but excluding something on the K list isn't going to be a dealbreaker for me.

Thanks again for reading! If you have any interest or just have questions please let me know!