Quick TL;DR:

I’m a generally awkward and nerdy guy. I would like to get to know you and perhaps become friends before anything more might develop. Interested in a relationship of substance, either platonic or romantic, but I’m always happy to just chat for a little while. Long term connections preferred but not required! Looking for my princess charming.

If this at all interests you, I hope you’ll read on.

I’ve been incredibly shy for as long as I can remember. I think this is maybe a contributing factor as to why I’m attracted to strong and confident women. I’ve been around women like this all my life, whether it be friends or family, and I find them all to be incredibly kind and admirable. Just the general idea of someone that can make me feel safe is just a really warm thought to me. Not only that, but being able to be there for them, encourage, build them up, and console them when they need it. It’s a bit of a romanticized thought, I guess, but it’s something that I find comfort in.

I know that any sort of relationship is more complicated than just that, both romantic and platonic, and communication is important. With how everyone might be as individuals, I understand that we might all be looking for something different, but hopefully as they intersect, we can find ways to be comfortable and happy together.

With some of that out of the way, here’s a little bit about me:

I’ve fallen into some pretty nerdy hobbies that take up my free time when I have the chance. These include, but are not limited to, video games, board games, card games, etc. These are things that I’ll happily share with you if you’re curious. I enjoy TV and movies, of course, and some favorites in that sphere are Futurama, Brooklyn 99, Avatar: The Last Airbender, and others for TV and Good Will Hunting, Grand Budapest Hotel, Fantastic Mr Fox, The Wind Rises, and more for movies. I like cooking and baking when I have the time and also like spending my time with friends or a quiet night in. I’ve been told I’m a good listener, whether you want validation, advice, or just a new perspective.

I’m a violinist and as such am a huge music nerd. Music, especially classical music, is something that I will talk for far too long about. It’s perhaps one of the most important things in the world to me. I believe that a life without music would be just dull and gray.

I’m about 5’7” and Caucasian. I have brown, curly hair that I don’t get much longer than a few inches before I get a trim. I wear round-framed glasses that sit in front of hazel eyes (not quite just green and not quite just brown). I have a pretty average body type, I think, but still pretty much a dad bod, so I'm a bit soft and squishy and I've been told I have a soft voice. If we decide to pursue anything beyond friendship, physical attraction is important to me so we can exchange photos if and when we feel comfortable.

Common interests are always welcome, but not at all necessary. I love to listen to people go on about what they love and what they're passionate about. As well as this, we can also find things we have in common should you decide to send me a message or chat invite (chat works better for me, but I have other places to talk as well. Discord too, but I'm not always comfortable sharing that right away.).

As for what I’m looking for, I’m not entirely sure. I have preferences based on personality, looks, etc., but it’s generally wide open for me. At the very least, I’m hesitant to pursue a romantic relationship if we are too far or if you are below the age of 23. I think an easy way to describe it is that I’m looking for my princess charming, but that’s still pretty vague. I’m looking for someone who can be my big spoon. I’m perfectly fine with just being friends, but if something further develops, that’d be pretty rad too.

As far as kinks go, if you found this, then we probably have some in common. It's probably not hard to figure some out from my previous posts. We can talk about that privately if you would like, but I’m pretty open on answering questions if you ask them, as well as stating if I’m not comfortable doing so. I also have some posts I’ve written on my profile (What I would like from a femdom/role reversal relationship and its follow up) that I would really appreciate if you read. This is already pretty long, but it would mean a lot to me.

If you don’t know what to talk about if you decide to reach out, here’s a dumb ice breaker that I like to use: If you could describe yourself as a fruit (or some other produce), what would it be and why?

With all of that down, I hope to hear from you soon!