Hi!

Thanks so much for being a patient domme, oh if you’re into this, then your patience is definitely off the charts. Recently, most of my time is split between applying to grad school and dealing with the fallout of an 8-year illness. But I’ll be fine because before the medical stuff started, I had just received my professional doctorate in healthcare so – ya boy’s got options. Although I have a decent handle on the stuff above, the tasks require so much mental energy– there’s little left to spend on finding the one. Then one day I hear there are women who don’t necessarily need me to be big-brain when we spend time together, I just need to trust her and follow instructions without complaining – so here I am.

I’d like my domme to know that outside of helping me explore my submissive side, I don’t expect anything else from her. In addition to meeting with my medical team regularly, I also have outside help with all the serious stuff. In my mind you’re already doing so much by possibly taking on an inexperienced sub and helping him feel like a good boy, I just want to make you proud. I prefer someone aged 22-35 but I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker to fall out of that range. Lastly, I’m keeping an open mind on the appearance for now, since you may only want to start with text and voice chat anyway.

I'm a 5’9” voluptuous (for now!) Asian American who's only been in vanilla relationships. Since I was never really a domme, I am also a bit unfamiliar with how they want their sub to behave (very eager to learn though). I enjoy some of the milder kinks like JOI, edging, and facesitting. My hard limits are anything illegal, pegging, and stuff that doesn’t fall under “gentle” femdom probably scare me. Although this is all kind of new, I think there have always been signs of my submissiveness. I’ve even uttered the phrase “I just want to be a good Asian son” before I knew what femdom was. Looking forward to your message :)