Hello there! I apologize for the text-wall I am about to subject you to but I want to be as specific as possible in introducing myself and what I'm looking for. I hope the effort put into this post reflects the effort I would put into a potential relationship.

I am a 21-year-old male from central Wisconsin looking for a lovely woman who is interested in a D/s dynamic. My physique is 5'11", ~190 lbs, with long brown hair and blue eyes. I have some spicier pictures on my profile, but I would be happy to send some SFW pictures with my face included to anyone who is interested. I think my friends would describe me as very easy-going, smart, and goofy (sort of golden retriever energy). My style is sort of androgynous adjacent. I enjoy embracing my feminine side (such as painting my nails, doing makeup, and full-body shaving). Unfortunately, I live in a small conservative town and work around the elderly, so I have been toning it down to avoid any problems that come with it. I love to crack a joke at any opportunity. In fact, I've recently decided to try stand-up comedy (just had my first set about a week ago lol). When I'm at home I enjoy cooking, listening to music, playing chess and other games online, and spending time with my cats. Some of my other hobbies include camping, going to concerts, and skiing.

A few months ago, I dropped out of college to work on my mental health and I am currently cooking full-time at a retirement home. This was probably the best decision I've made in years, as I have found joy in life again and I'm happy being in this sort of intermission period while I decide how I would like to spend the rest of my life. Currently, I am deciding between pursuing a culinary degree, finishing a bachelor's in computer science, and working to become a full-time comedian. But in the meantime, I would love to find a partner who I can support and grow with.

I do not care about any of your physical qualities outside of taking care of yourself. What I value most is someone who embraces their individuality and is comfortable in their own skin. I would love a partner who has a great sense of humor and whom I can have thought-provoking conversations with. I am open to people with a range of political and spiritual beliefs as long as you treat all others with kindness and respect. I value spending time together in person so I would highly prefer someone who lives within a 2-3 hour drive of me. My only dealbreakers are that you enjoy physical affection and support my feminine side.

I like to do acts of service for my partner such as cooking them their favorite foods, cleaning their living space (maid dress anyone?), helping them destress, and generally just being someone to lean on. This doesn't necessarily mean a female-led relationship outside of the bedroom. However, I enjoy people with a strong will.

Now lastly for the naughty side of things. I consider myself pansexual (but mostly heteromantic) and have enjoyed kinky fun with men and women, although I have had a fair share of more hooks ups with men, and have never truly been in a long-term D/s relationship. I would definitely consider myself a service sub, as following orders and putting your pleasure first gives me the most satisfaction. Lastly, I have found the mental aspect of a D/s dynamic is very important to me. The first (and only) time I slipped into subspace was when a domme broke my mind using only her words and some gentle rubbing on my thigh and caged crotch.

My biggest kinks are feminization, chastity, pegging/anal play, body worship, facesitting, bondage, and humiliation/teasing. Some other kinks of mine are spanking, face slapping, light cbt, edging, overstimulation, cum eating, electroplay, sensory deprivation, emasculation, degradation, spit, hypnosis, bisexual threesomes, and CF/nm. I am curious about cuckolding, gangbangs, CNC, and watersports, but I would need to feel very comfortable with my partner to try them. My only hard limits are scat, vomit, and blood.

If you've read this novel of a personal post, feel free to message me! Just reach out with your first name, age, and location. I'd like to chat online for a couple of days before moving forward. But, I feel like we can best understand each other in person so I would love to have a date to get to know each other without any sexual expectations.

Thanks! <3