Hi! I’m Eva ☺️

I’m a 31 year old Canadian looking for fun new submissives to get to know. I am a dominant leaning switch, leaning to more softer side of things. I am a dedicated and engaging partner when I’ve met a good match. I take great pride in the care and time I devote to my partners, and I strive to provide comfort/growth within a dynamic that satisfies us both.

My list reflects the base level attributes I am seeking in a new partner and just because you check all of these boxes does not mean I will even be interested. I’m someone who looks for a meaningful connection, so if you’ve stumbled across me looking for play only - I recommend you stumble right back out of here.

The List

• someone between the ages of 30-45 no exceptions

• someone with some in-person experience in kink/BDSM - I have no interest if you have only ever written about this with strangers on the internet. I am happy to learn along side you, but there has to be some basic understanding and practice that has already happened.

• Someone willing to build a meaningful friendship that is not predicated on the desire to see me naked and/or fuck me. If your desire to reach out and “be friends” is in hope that we might someday see each other naked…well just take a look around my profile. I’m naked on the internet plenty!

• Experience with Poly/ENM in general - it is fine if you are not currently partners but I am not monogamous and I never will be with someone who isn’t my husband. No I’m not “monogamous adjacent” because I don’t have a ton of partners. I’m just selective about where I pour out my time/energy/attention

• Someone with hobbies and interests outside of kink - I want to actually be able to hang out with you and do non-naked things so having things in common is important!

• Someone passionate - it doesn’t really matter about what but I am a very passionate person about the things I love and I really enjoy hearing other people geek out!

• Someone who also values honesty and open communication - this one is a MUST for me. I have had partners in the past that have decided to lie to me, hide other partners, misrepresent who they are and what they are looking for. If you decide to be dishonest or will not communicate, I am not going to engage with that at all.

• someone open-minded and adventurous! - I like a few things that require people to think outside the box. I’m very happy to explore and help others explore plenty of things! Part of the fun for me is learning what people like and “how they like it”. I’m very happy to have conversations at length about kink/my experiences when there is an established connection.

Past that, I’d really love to just to get to know someone ☺️

Im interested - now what?

Well seeing as this is the internet, the approach is pretty friggen important. I get offers for play out of no where and you definitely don’t want to do that.

Just sending “hey” or some fantasy you see me in isn’t going to result in anything other than a block. Tell me about yourself, tell me what some of your vanilla goals are, and tell me why you’d like to get to know me. Give me something to respond to!

I’d love to hear from you if you’d think we might be a good fit. If nothing else, I’m always down to make a new friend ☺️