I placed a sarcastic, dare I say, humorous post a few days ago where I listed several undesirable qualities, traits, behaviors that I would offer….got a few responses thanking me for the laugh…but ultimately the mods took it down.
I understood - keeping decorum in a sub like this is tough to do and respect the community.
So, as the title suggests…and now, for something completely different:
I do laugh at several of the posts here that wreak of desperation and/or have low self awareness, thinking they can appeal to highly empowered women by listing their desired kinks or appearing hopeless.
I feel that the mental side of things gets overlooked. The bond and trust that develops is the most important aspect of D/s. The acts and physical adventures will naturally follow but if you don’t have the foundation, you’re simply trying to re-enact porn that you see.
Sure, I’ve got carnal interests, as we all do but I first want to meet someone who I fit with, has similar expectations, philosophies, and goals.
I have a big job, travel a lot but my schedule is flexible and I will always make time for things that have great value. I’ve learned that a healthy work/life balance is essential to both mental and physical well being.
If this resonates with you, don’t let distance keep you from reaching out. As I said, I get around quite a bit. I hope to hear from you.
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