Hi, I'm a 29 year old trans woman who's looking for a chastity dom (male, female, non-binary, doesn't matter). Timezone also doesn't matter too much, but I'm in the European timezone. I haven't medically transitioned yet, but I do dress and present female (no make-up). This is the chastity cage that I wear and I'm able to, more or less, wear it while sleeping. I live on my own and I have lots of privacy, so if I need to jump up and double check is something hurts or doesn't feel right I can do that pretty much any time I want. I also work from home 4 days a week and, in general, only have to turn on my camera once or twice a day if I want to. I have to travel to the office once a week, as I'm still experimenting and improving my comfort I think it's safer to skip locking during office days for now.
For me the most important thing is that the real world has real people with real consequences. I am pushing my own boundaries these past 2 weeks but I am not, for example, going to the store with a mini-skirt in chastity without underwear. If someone would find out that way it would absolutely crush me in a traumatic way, and not the "oops haha what if someone finds out *giggle*" way. I'm also in the experimentation phase for at least another week or so where sometimes something needs adjustment. For the most past everything is working out fine, but I'm waiting on a better support strap that doesn't get uncomfortable with long-term wear.
I've been self-locking for the past 2 weeks, but I noticed that it's more fun to do it with someone else, mainly being asked to verify if I'm (still) locked. If we're a match we'll see how it goes from there. I might have both keys, but I consider myself a very loyal person as long as I feel like I'm being treated fairly.
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