Keywords: 39 sub, straight male, attention whore?, shy initially (in convo), live/cam play

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Hi!

I'm a fun guy, with a rooted "need" for kink. I am currently not involved with anyone, but want to bring that spark back with someone. Preferably looking for something longer term; but perhaps a play partner in waves can work.

I may seem shy in the beginning of chats where I'm still figuring you out; but I will open op. I enjoy walks in nature, photography, read the occasional book and play a bunch of video games.

In some numbers I am 39 year old, tall ( /- 2m / 6'6) and have slim/average body. I may need to work out a bit more often but I'm still more near the underweight area of the scales than anything else.

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I'm a worrier, overthinker, so detail in your requests will help. Though I will likely speak up or ask when I see stuff. I might see many issues, but I suppose you'll be the judge on how real those are.

The good thing about my overthinking mind is that it also comes up with plenty of ideas and possibilities that I can share with you to either use, 'store' or adapt to suit what you desire. Though sometimes my mind may be thinking I can do more than I actually can.

That mind also seems to become more and more protective. I've seem to slowly lock-up and will need time to 'ease out'. Trust. Communication. Attention.

I've been playing in bursts via online forums; though it's fun, I have a need for attention; I can occasionally do a 'go do this task and report back' kind of thing, but I prefer to play 'live' with interaction. I like someone engaged in what we do, not just 'yeah', 'ok' and seemingly only reading half of the things I may say.

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It will help a lot if occasionally I see/hear you as well, though not a strict requirement. I'm not asking you to get naked or going to judge your looks, I just like seeing there's a person there.

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A very short and incomplete summary of my likes/limits may be useful. I suppose a lot is vague still and/or will become vaguer over time. A list of things is usually hardly explanatory enough to give you a good idea, often something needs explanation; but you need to get a general idea of what you're responding to.. In addtion to this I've filled out one of those 'kinklists', https://i.imgur.com/Hft5PiB.png

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Likes: Anal, Denial, Bondage, Semi/Hidden public, Games

Limits: Face (at the begnning), poo, blood, ageplay, findom, extreme pain/permanent scarring, blackmail, videos/recordings (live webcam is fine) - I'd also prefer to remain alive ;)

Toys, I have a lot and this list is also far from complete but lists most important ones: Ropes, chains/locks, dildos, buttplugs, fucking machine, wand, flogger, crop, paddle, clamps, gags, cockrings...

Other than the initial Reddit Chat/Messages, I have several options to continue this conversation including discord, kik, telegram and skype.

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I look forward to hearing from you :D