Domination is most fun for me with someone who I'm in a relationship with. If I just wanted to use some random stranger, I easily could. Maybe you feel similarly.

I like my play to be as psychological as it is physical. Here's some examples. I want to grab you by the hair and see how many slaps you can take, while I make you count each one and beg me for more. I'll order you to cum in the palm of my hand and make you lick it up nice and slow, while I call you names. Or maybe I'll hold your head between my thighs and squeeze your neck just so I can see your eyes flutter as I'm choking you.

Me: 26, Black, NB. Poly and married but dating separately. I'm into horror media, manga, and anime. My music taste is all over the place. I like any thing from jazz, 70s and 80s rock, vaporwave, to folk music. Trash reality TV is my bread and butter! I can probably beat you at some videos games.

Here's my kink list. Our kinks don't have to overlap exactly, but if you're mostly into lighter play, we're not a good fit.

I don't think there's a firm stereotype for how Dommes look, but I don't exactly look like someone who can make someone cry, but I've found that adds to the appeal both for myself and my partners. I'm short, cute, present pretty femme, and have a nice fat ass.

I'm not looking for a 24/7 TPE relationship. While I'm happy to have the dynamic exist outside of bedroom, I also want to have the space to do "boring" vanilla things with my partner. I like to think I'm pretty affectionate. I'm a big fan of cuddling, holding hands, and the usual cutesy shit. Happy to give some head pats and forhead kisses. I can be gentle and caring, but I'm not a Mommy Domme.

Aftercare is non-negotiable. If you don't think you need aftercare or have "no limits," I'm not the one for you.

Cohabitation is not on the table for the near future, but that may change in the next few years. If we do end up getting more serious, my place can be more available for hanging out.

You: 24-45. Looking for a long-term relationship. Poly yourself or open to dating somone who is poly. Any gender. Able to host regularly. In the metrowest area. Preference to fellow POC, but not a requirement. Not interested in meeting anyone who doesn't believe in trans and reproductive rights or racial justice.

I'm not looking to connect with folks who have never subbed before. Frankly my tastes are a bit extreme for somone subbing for the first time. You don't have to be super experienced, but you need to know that you enjoy things like being degraded and used. I do enjoy putting people i their place, but I'm not a fan of brats.

Don't be shy and hit me up. I promise I don't bite...right away 😈