I want to be your wife! and your number one cheerleader, and your best friend, and your kinky pet!

A relationship to me is not about intercourse but a wonderful, sexy life together. Only a deep connection can bring us together!

If our chemistry is good then I am submissive by nature and *not* a switch.

I am 5’10, 186lbs and still losing weight. My hair is salt and pepper. I lead a moderately active lifestyle. My muscles are toned, but I am not hypertrophic. I have never been married. I have no children. I have no STDs. I don’t drink, smoke or use drugs. I am smart, well-educated, active, curious, and a little bit all over the place. My main hobbies and interests including gardening, woodworking, science, philosophy, walking/hiking, ceramics, music, and sometimes cooking.

You are probably extremely smart, child-free, 30-40 years old, slender/petite, smallish breasts. You are cheerful. You want to drive. You don’t have tattoos. You don’t do drugs or drink alcoholically. You have no STDs. You like to talk. You want to grow and change with me (I am constantly trying to be and do better). You want to share life with somebody special like yourself.

Conversation turns you on. Everything, so to speak, is in your mind. It is no leap for you to shift from casual conversation to something *more* though the subject may remain entirely innocent. You love doing kinky stuff and may want to push me sexually—but you’re not a pushy or needling person. (No weak whiny bullshit.) You like to take ownership. And you want to collar me—possibly even lock me in chastity—which I am quite interested to explore. Working D/s into our daily life is important to me. But, keeping the mtf side of things private is also important to me. Being submissive in public is okay just so it’s not super obvious.

My own kinks include: shiny, stretchy stuff (esp. tights/pantyhose and leotards/bodysuits, and bras, all of which I like to wear, too); costumes; secrets/being made to feel psychically vulnerable; unrelenting celibacy; cuddling and kissing; tease & denial; *bondage* (esp. mummification, heavy chain, being made quite helpless); a bit of S&M; CNC/reluctant stuff; going for days (literally). And if you want to see me melt into subspace, tell me I’m a good girl.

My hard limits include anything “gross” or injurious (including outting). I haven’t tried but am curious about rules and domestic discipline; chastity; pegging; lots of stuff really: being coaxed into doing things that I am reluctant about is a turn on.