Hello everyone!

I am hoping to find someone to build a relationship through trust, honesty, and communication. Have been on the search off and on long enough to know what I want out of this relationship. I have learned over the years, patience is the game. Preferably we can talk and find if we have a connection and go from there. Mainly, I am looking for a possible LTR with a d/s dynamic. However I am open to just play or friends. Really just a normal guy with a freaky side.

Seeking IRL, online doesn't do much for me.

I am 29, white, skinny/in shape, 5'8, 150 lbs, blonde/redish hair. Live in Richmond, Virginia.

Been working out more, eating better, going to therapy. Generally trying to better myself in all aspects of life.

A bit about me. I am definitely more on the introverted side. Some days I just want to be inside all day, others I like to adventure. Work in graphic design. I love computers and the technology around them. New job in the construction design industry. Probably play too many video games, but ehh its a great out lol. Lately I have been playing games less and going out more, have def become more outgoing these past months.

Love playing sports, not watching them as much, hiking, atvs, the river, paintball, skydiving, concerts, or just staying inside and watching netflix or gaming. Getting my sunburn on at browns island concerts as of late.

Work consumes a good amount of my day, and I try to be productive afterwards. Have some needed lazy days of course haha.

As for kinks, my favorites are bondage, pegging, anal play, light impact play, oral service, face sitting, gags, and some rough play like slapping and hair pulling.

Chastity is now a big one but not required. Really enjoy the denial aspect of it. Have done light feminization and would like to explore more.

Some kinks I have done but do not have much experience in are humiliation, tease and denial, edging, fisting, sensory deprivation, and latex.

Hard limits are sounding, blood, scat, piss, findom, scars, diaper type ageplay. All limits and boundaries will be respected fully, and expect the same. There are probably some more kinks and limits I am not thinking of.

Mostly I am very open minded and like to experiment. I will usually try most anything at least once.

Very much love pleasing and getting the other off, denial is nice in that aspect. Very much a tease but not bratty. Overall, would love a vanilla relationship, where I'm your slut behind closed doors.

Age range doesn't matter too much to me, ideally looking for 24 to 35. But very open to any age, as long as legal. Race and size do not matter much to me, but I do think physical attraction is important.

Ultimately I want to meet IRL if we click, starting online and we can see how we feel. We can trade pics when we both feel comfortable.

If I have peaked your interest at all just message me. Would love to know about you, your experiences, kinks, limits, and all the fun stuff. Of course if you have any questions ask away. Will say, if you message, would like a little bit of an intro to weed out. A lot of scammers and findoms.

This is kind of copypasta from previous posts, all is still true and been edited a bit here and there.

Hope you all have a great day!