Hey, I'm a 21 year old guy from Canada and I'm looking for someone to talk to and something more if we end up hitting it off, Ideally I'm looking for some sort of longer term connection, I've never been a fan of short term stuff so I'm hoping I find someone I really vibe and get along with.

I'll be upfront and say I've only had 1 long term relationship before, besides that I'm pretty inexperienced and still trying to figure things out, if that's something you're fine with, feel free to read ahead.

Some stuff about me

• A quick physical description since its important to a lot of people, I'm 5'7 and 170 LBS (actively working on losing some weight) also here's a face pic https://imgur.com/a/93ndmuH

• Personality wise, I'm definitely more of an introvert, not to say I don't like talking with people, just that I need more time than most to recharge my social battery. I' try to be pretty down to earth and non confrontational, I'm usually mellow but can put my foot down if the situation calls for it. I've been told I can be nice and forgiving to a fault and I'm not very good at being blunt or mean, but again, I can if the situation calls for it. My friends think I'm pretty funny but that's a little more subjective obviously. Lastly, I've been told by a lot of people I have a more "Feminine" personality, whatever that means, I don't really like putting gendered labels on this kind of stuff but I just thought I'd add it since its something I've been told a lot.

• My interests change a lot and I'm always willing to try out new things but some stuff that's stuck around would be music (I've been getting into punk recently,) Politics kind of (I'm pretty far left leaning in case that matters to you,) watching films/tv shows/anime, video games (been getting into FFXIV and DbD recently but I'm always willing to try out whatever,) and I've been wanting to get into baking and drawing but those are both VERY early works in progress lol.

• I'm currently in between jobs but previously worked in the restaurant and bar industry and am looking for another job in that area right now.

• I should be upfront and make it known from the start that I do suffer from mental illness, namely depression, anxiety and ADHD, the anxiety can make it a little difficult for me when first meeting and speaking with new people, I promise though that once I warm up to someone I'll be able to talk their ear off. I'm actively getting the help and treatment I need for all of these and will always do my best to make sure that they NEVER become someone else's problem, despite this, I wanted to make it clear and be upfront since I know some people would rather not have to deal with that ever.

• I LOVE animals, I have a cat of own and she's been living with me since I was a baby, she's pretty old now but I still love her more than ever, If you have pets too ill definitely be asking for pictures of them haha.

• In terms of kink, I'm into a lot, I'm a sub leaning switch so if you're a switch too that would be great, I'm more interested in the gentle side of things but am not against the more extreme side of things too, specific interests would be bondage, degradation, romance, teasing, denial etc. I'm interested in trying stuff like, anal play, power exchange, cuckolding etc. Specific limits would be any extreme or permanent damage, anything involving scat or blackmail. If it's not listed as a limit I'm probably willing to at least humor trying it if thats what you're into.

I'm not sure what else to add about me so I'll stop before It becomes rambling, if you have any questions though, feel free to ask me.

What I'm looking for in you (hopefully)

• My biggest requirement is that you're just a generally kind person (I know thats probably a requirement for everyone but still) you don't need to be spending your free time doing good deed's or anything but if you're the type of person to yell at waitstaff or something, I don't think we would get along.

• I'd love if we had at least a few similar interests, we don't have to align on everything and I'm always open to trying new things but it would be nice to start off on some similar ground.

• Distance doesn't matter too much to me, planes exist so as long as you're open to meeting up in the future (even if it takes awhile for the right time to line up) I'm totally cool with long distance.

• Appearance doesn't really matter to me, if I like someone's personality I'll find them physically attractive too no matter how they look. I would like to see how you look eventually though so I know I'm not talking to a ghost. As long as you're over 18 age also isn't SUPER important to me, it's hard for me to imagine I'd have a lot in common with someone much older than me though

• Obviously be either a switch or dominant

Besides that, I don't have a lot more to add so I'm gonna end my post now before it gets too long, if you're still around, feel free to shoot me a message giving yourself a little introduction or ask me any other questions you might have. Also, include your favorite movie or show so I know you read the whole thing. Either way, good luck in finding whatever it is you're looking for on here.