Hey everybody,

I just returned from a 4 week holiday around Spain, and Southern France, all on my own. I have had tons of fun, saw amazing nature and history. And yeah, I havce had some other fun too, if you know what I mean. And this trieggered me to come back over here and give it another shot. Who knows who got triggered the same way (and the weather that slowly starts to get better again over here that gives another shot of fun). So I have high hopes, but we will see what happens.

Lets start with some more basic information about myself.

I am a 35 year old girl (I know, getting older) from the Northern part of Belgium (the Flemish speaking part), who work as a digital information enginer in a consultancy company that mostly works for civil and infrastructural projects. i am a project leader (and project manager on some smaller projects) and my team has about 35 people for know on different projects, who I guide and support on daily base. So you can say that I kinda like to be in control in daily life.

After work I like to play volleybal, go for a run or hike or go to the gym for some excercises), I love to cook (and eat some of it afterwards ofcourse) and I can enjoy a good book. I hve to add that I am quiet a science nerd, so those books aren't always books, but can be papers or science articles too (which I can get lost in when I start to dive deeper).

But enough about this part of me, we have to keep some stuff to talk about later too. But now some more about that other, less known side of me. My kinky side.

I am a full-blown domme (with a minor slip towards a sub position once in a trip around the sun). But most say that I am a soft domme. i don't like the harsh punishments, or to punish because I want too. I am more of the fun, the pleasure, funishments or a punishment when you definitly need one.

Other limits are extreme, scat/pee/blood, illegal, ...

My likes are being in controle (playtime, clothing, orgasm, ...), semi-public, light torture/teasing, mind playing, some bondage, ... This list is definitly not limitative and am always open to learn news stuff and to experiment. And very crucial for me is daily communication. I know we all have a life, we don't have time every day to talk endlessly. But just a hey, how are you is a small thing, but it helps a lot to get connected and to stay connected with eachother. If you have read all off this please include you favorite travel location in your initial respons. With this said, I think it it clear that connection is key for me. I can't have a dynamic without a proper connection upfront.

As for dynamiuc. For me we are both equal. In my opinion, the sub even has the power in the dynamic, not the domme. But am willing to explain this further later on.

Now what do I want from my sub. Most of all, just being you. Don't act differently, don't play a character, ... I like my subs playfull, curious, willing to being pushed (within limits) and to like to experiment.

Aside thiss, I like you to be playfull, honest, open, ...

And to be female, no guys, no guys and oh, no guys.

If this interests you, or if you have more questions, then feel free to slide in my DM or send me a chat and I try to respond as quick as possible.