Heya, thanks for opening my post! I gotta warn you now, this is probably gonna be a longer one; I’m planning on putting a lot of heart into this. And also, if the post is still up, that means I’m still looking! So don’t worry if it’s been up for a few hours or days, feel free to slide into my DMs. So, without further ado, let’s get right to it!

Like it says in the title, I’m a 29-year old subby male. I’m cisgendered, heterosexual, and Caucasian. This is what I look like! I stand an even 6’0 and I’m on the chubby side, currently weighing 216 lbs, down from 240 (my max weight was 300 lbs a couple years ago, and my lowest post-diet was 184 lbs; I had a bout of depression that I coped with by putting some weight back on, and I’m actively working to lose it again).

Racism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia are hard “no’s” for me, so if any of those apply to you, please save both of us the time and look elsewhere. :)

What am I looking for? Mainly, I’m looking for someone that makes me feel like I matter to them, and someone I can show that same level of care towards in return. I’m not interested in being a kink dispenser, nor am I looking for someone to be one. I’m hoping to meet a friend to enjoy each other’s colony with, play games and watch videos together, and of course have kinky fun when the mood strikes. I do have a preferred agerange of 24-35 years old, but I’m willing to push it a little on either direction for someone I really click with!

A bit about me. I’m a huge nerd tbh. I love astronomy, I’ll talk your ear off about space-related stuff if you let me. I’m also into gaming, mostly sandbox and rpg games, with a couple of FPS games sprinkled in. Bonus points to you if we can play something together. :D I’m extremely shy and easily flustered, especially via praise and flirting (Don’t worry, I really love it, I’m just awful at responding to it without devolving into a blushing mess). I also have a tendency to tell dad jokes and awful puns, so you’ve been warned lmao

I have a black cat named Luna, and I rescued her from the streets about three years ago. She’s my little baby. <3 I’m happy to spam you with pictures of her if you want.

As far as kinks and stuff go, I’m a sucker for praise and pet names. I’m also really into edging and orgasm control, and I’m very curious about anal play. Breath control by way of smothering or choking are also very appealing to me, as is bondage. And finally, I’m a huge fan of giving my partner body worship. <3

I can say for sure that my partner’s pleasure and enjoyment is my top priority. Higher than even my own. I dunno if that counts as a kink, but I just get a lot of satisfaction and joy from doing what my partner wants. I definitely have a preference towards more gentle dommes, but I’m not above punishment if I misbehave (a rare thing, I do my best to be a good boy).

Now for hard limits. Toilet stuff (scat, piss, and vomit) are absolutely off the table. I’m also against permanent damage, extreme pain (minor pain is great, moderate is negotiable), excessive blood, gore, illegal activities and substances, and findom. Cum-eating is a soft-limit. I could be talked into it, but we’d have to really click together and have a good, healthy relationship established first.

I hope this was a decent rundown on who I am and what I’m looking for. I’m kinda nervous about this, but I also feel a weird optimism. If you’re reading this post, that means I’m still looking, so don’t worry if it’s been up for several hours or even a few days by the time you see it. I would love to talk on Discord after chatting on Reddit for a bit, but I’m open to other platforms if that doesn’t work for you. I do have to insist that you be willing and able to verify yourself after we start chatting, and of course I’ll be happy to do the same. Oh, and to test if you’ve read this far, why don’t you tell me what your favorite color combination is in your first message? :)

So if you see something you like, feel free to send me a message or a chat! Excited to hear from you! <3