Hello,
I hope this post is a pleasant read for you.
Here is a quick summary of what I am looking for, before going into more details.
- I am looking for a deep, meaningful relationship with a Dominant person. It doesn't have to be kinky all the time - I also need some "complicity". However, I need to "know my place" at all times. Power imbalance will be constant.
- Aligned to previous point : my main kinks are pleasing in general, service submission, TPE. I also am open to pain play, bondage, anal, humiliation...
- I also need to have common interests with you (music, reading, movies, human rights).
Here is the development :
Non kinky interests
Because before being a Kinky person, I am a Human being with a beating heart, here are my general interests.
It would be sweet if we shared some of them, because I am not only looking for a Domme - I also want a friend and possibly a lover ; deep connections at the very least.
- I love reading /literature in general, and poetry in particular. I would love to find another poetry driven soul.
- I take great interest in philosophy, politics, human behaviour, queer theory.
- I am an activist for Human Rights. That takes some time and energy but is very much worth it.
- I absolutely love music (folk and poetic lyrics but also free jazz, black metal and techno. Yes, my neighbours love me, why do you ask ?)
Kinky interests
- TPE, power dynamics, protocols in general, and Discipline.
- Chastity play, teasing, denial.
- Service submission
- Humiliation
- Bondage
- Pain play
- Anal
I also have limits ; I haven't listed them here because I prefer to discuss everything that we will do. Yes, even what I listed as interest. It goes without saying that we will both have safewords.
You will be my Domme and take control over my life, but I also want to have sweet, romantic times and never-ending discussions.
Another thing is, I am very much into the psychological aspect of BDSM. I need to know the reason for everything happening. "Because it pleases me" is a very good reason ; I still need to hear it. I also tend to overthink everything.
Anyway - if I got your interest, drop me a line with your age and and general location. I hope to hear from you soon.
Respectfully,
Your future (hopefully) submissive.
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