Hello everyone,

I am a 32 years old transgender woman, from Western Europe. I started medically and socially transitioning about 3 months ago (voice training, hormones, beard removal...).

It all takes time and effort, but is incredibly worth it.

However, as much as I've never felt happier and never felt more like... myself, I feel that I could do better. I could be a better version of myself, and get overall happiness from it.

This includes (but is not limited to) not skipping voice training, reading or writing more, Exercising more often, sleeping enough...

And, in addition to that, I've always felt a tingle in my belly - you know, that irrestible appeal - when I am bossed around by someone I desire.

Some people (me, for instance) feel good when they are ordered around. And other people (you, hopefully) feelgood when ordering people around.

But, both positions might lead to trouble in daily life (respectively, not being able to be confident, and being a not-so-nice bossy person). I would love to create a canvas for both of us to indulge in our needs so we can be better and nicer people in other contexts. An outfall of some kind.

So, in short, I am looking for a Dominant for the following :

• Daily life discipline. Defining goals together, and then the basic, Pavlov-like stuff : rewards if I complete them, punishment if I don't.
• More kinky stuff, revolving around disciplining. It could involve (but not limited to), bondage, pain plain (takes discipline to keep spanking when it hurts), maintenance spankings, posture training...
• I'm also open to other kinks, let's discuss them.

I am not, however, looking for sex life control, humiliation / degradation, misoginy, clothing control... and probably many more I'm not even aware of. Everything needs to be discussed anyway.

The kind of relationship I am looking for is : - Disciplinarian (well, duh) - Possibly, if we click, friendship - Possibly, if we click and not live too far away, a romantic relationship.

A little bit about me : - I work full time in tech ; - I take great interest in human rights (volunteering a lot in in this field) and politics. - I love music (jazz, metal, Techno), literature and poetry, and go to the movies at least once a week.

I am looking forward to reading from you.