hi there! i'm a little sad right now honestly so pardon if i say something that sounds dumb.

i'm a 22 year old, feminine (in relativity to most guys) asian boy who has an extremely soft heart. i'm looking for that somebody and to find a deeper, genuine connection. i could go on and on about philosophy and what kind of connection i'd like but we'd be here all day.

about me:

physical: 5'11", black hair longer than most guys (but not too long) brown eyes, avg weight. i wear glasses. you're likely to find me wearing an anime t-shirt. don't worry, i don't like wearing corny anime shirts, it's nice art. you're also very likely to find me wearing mostly black. i'm interested in that techwear / japanese streetwear look.

personality: i do my best to be kind and understanding. if you psychology and the big 5 traits, i'm very high in agreeableness but also high in neuroticism. i'm actually an extrovert even though i often give off introvert vibes. i'm very soft hearted. i'm not a very quiet person, in fact i'm the opposite when i'm happy or enthusiastic about something. i don't like being loud but that's just how i am. i have very low self-esteem/confidence but i've been working on it through life with help from therapy. i'd like to think i'm doing much better than i was before.

hobbies: rn im a shut-in who plays games, not from choice but mostly because depression and lack of friends and what not. but some things i like are custom mechanical keyboards, gamin (valorant, smash, etc), anime (haven't been watching much recently for some reason), volleyball (i really don't get to play this much though...) and idk im a general nerd when it comes to tech and stuffs.

kink/sex: i generally prefer gentle femdom but i like more general femdom as well. (with limitations such as no humiliation, no degradation, no physical pain, no worship) apart from that, i'm relatively vanilla. a little dirty fantasies here and there but nothing too outlandish (i think)

looking for:

somebody warm, at least somebody who's warm to me. i'm a soft soul and i need somebody who has a lot of patience because i'm sometimes a lot.

somebody understanding, or at least does their best to understand me. while i seem like a pushover, i will stand up for things i believe in and what not. i absolutely abhor narrow-mindedness / narcissism.

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feel free to message me if you have any questions at all. thanks for reading this far <3