Hello everyone!
I am a 26 years old trans girl living in the north of France. If you're curious to know what I look like, I allowed myself to include a picture of me. Sorry for the mask as well as the background but it's for privacy reasons. I'm 1m78 / 5'10'' with 67kg / 147 lbs, brown curvy hair and brown eyes.
A bit more about me, I'm a full time software programmer which is a passion of mine as well as a job. I love cooking, and specifically baking, from the process to seeing the results on people's faces. I enjoy a lot walking out, hiking and traveling, all of what I often like to refer as "exploring". I'm a huge fan of video games as a medium, both for playing them and analyzing how they're designed. I'm also a TTRPG fan and read a lot about if, from internet to dedicated books and have that same analyzing look as for video games. I have quite an "internet culture" and look at many youtube videos of numerous subjets, from funny ones to full documentaries. Several subjects interest me, including all forms of science, the news and politics, art, etc... But I'm also eager to listen about other's people passions. And I love animals! I'm more of a dog person than cat person, but they seem to like me a lot!
If I were to describe my personality, I would say I'm more of a soft-spoken and considerate person while still often trying to do bad puns. I can be a good listning ear, but I am also quite communicative from having deep conversations to trying to reslove petty arguments without having grudges. Futhermore, I'm comfortable owning up to my mistakes and learning from them. I'm also quite sensitive, even when consuming medias, but I'm still an emotionally stable person.
So, I'm searching for someone as motivated and as curious as me, funny, that can communicate her desires and explore them with me, and is open about something long term. I want us to chat together from deep conversations to stupid jokes, but also sharing some passions that we can explore together. But I'm also searching someone who can accept and like my quirkiness, such as listning at strange musics, having a wierd fixation for mushroom trinkets, and being overall quite clumsy. If we connect on a personal level over time, I would be interested to commit more to the relationship from IRL meetings to maybe living together depending of how it evolves.
Regarding how I envisioned my desired dynamic, I'm indeed seeing Femdom and D/s as more of a lifestyle where rules and a certain amount of control should take place and not only something reserved to the bedroom, ultimately something close to a TPE where I'm heavily restricted, at your service and at your mercy. However, I absolutely don't want our D/s roles to put a distance/cold between us during our daily life. Sharing mundane activities, hanging out together and having a variety of conversations is also important for me.
Regarding my kinks, I have many of them, linked to power exchange, being controled, serving someone, being humiliated, both inside and outside of the bedroom, but I don't want to bore you with an entire kinklist and I think it's more respectful if I let you engage this discussion. A few things to note however:
I'm really openminded and have many kinks, so if you're liking something associated to D/s or Femdom, I will probably like it.
I'm also liking some quite "extreme kinks", so you can feel confortable talking about those with me.
I have only two kinks linked to Femdom that I consider important to me and would want you to share those: chastity/orgasm control and foot fetish/worship. I specified them since I know it's not every Domme's cup of tea and I wouldn't want those to be ignored or worse, done only for me and without you getting some fun out of it... But apart of those two, you can envision this relationship however you want.
That's all for me, if you want more information about me, feel free to send a message. And thank you for reading me, I genuinely hope it wasn't too long! I thought a lot about how I should write this message, really, but I feel like every parts are now important for me.
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