Hey I’m a 27 year old male working and living in Scotland. I’m 170cm, fairly slim build and I’m happy to send a SFW picture on request.

I’m relatively new to the kink scene and have only had a little experience with exploring kinks. Mainly experimenting with bondage, worship, impact and some anal play but within a vanilla relationship. I’m interested in exploring more of a D/s dynamic, the reason for this interest I think boils down to trust. I have had issues with trusting people in the past so the idea of being that vulnerable and trusting with someone else is really appealing to me. I have took the time to learn about it on my own listening to podcasts, reading and speaking to people who are involved in the scene and now I’m looking to get involved myself.

While I’m primarily interested in finding a partner I’d also love to just chat and make some connections. So if you are interested in just becoming friends please feel free to send a message.

I’m an active guy I play rugby and go to the gym fairly regularly. I like to pick up new hobbies every so often and generally just try new things whenever I get the chance. I’m also into reading (mainly fantasy), cinema, music and just anything outdoors. I’m hoping to take up sailing in the near future as I have dreams of sailing across the globe.

I’d say I’m a pretty confident person (not to brag but I’ve been to therapy) but generally quite shy and introverted. It can take me a while to come out of my shell but once I do I like to think I’m a lot of fun. I’m currently working full time. I love my job and I’m pretty passionate about what I do so feel free to ask me about it.

I also travel a bit for work so while ideally I’d like to find someone in my area I’m open to traveling within the UK.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d like to find a dominant woman that wants to explore some elements of BDSM together. I’m open to most things but I’d say I’m looking for more of a FLR with a strict Domme. I have some kinks that I would be interested in but don’t feel the need to list them. For me it’s more about power exchange and surrendering control so I’d be open to lots of different scenarios. Of course I have my limits and I’d be happy to discuss those further but generally I’m not interested in scat, age play or pet play.

If you’ve made it this far thanks for taking the time to read through. I look forward to meeting people and getting to know you better.