Long time kinkster, first time Domme. I’m looking for something casual to have fun exploring some kinks. Could it grow into a full dynamic organically? Possibly, but I’m not looking to force anything, just want some occasional kinky fun when the mood strikes.

A little about me - I’ve been in the kink world for years, but am relatively new at exploring certain kinks that I have so here I am - looking for some fun in my free time. I’m 38, married (yes, he knows. We’re ENM), own 2 businesses that keep me pretty busy, and I live in Colorado. I can’t talk every day, but would like something regular and ongoing.

Kinks that I’m into - this list ebbs and flows and is not an exhaustive list. Some aren’t very suitable for online, but here they are anyways. None of them are required for me to enjoy myself, but we obviously need some overlap

• chastity and/or orgasm control and denial
• Cuckolding
• Anal training / anal play
• ‘Forced’ bi
• CEI
• humiliation
• Light / playful degradation (you want to be my little slut? 😜)
• Body checks / inspection
• Cfnm/Cfnf sitting at my feet
• Service (cleaning, massages, bathing, making me food and drinks, running errands, etc)
• Use - if I needed someone trusted as a 3rd with my husband
• Cnc
• Insertions
• Cgl
• Breastfeeding (no I don’t lactate)
• Eating my ass
• Ruined orgasms
• CBT
• Feet

Why haven’t I explored more? Probably my low tolerance for bullshit. I’m not a kink dispenser, I’m in charge and I don’t tolerate topping from the bottom.

Basic expectations You’re welcome to tell me things that you enjoy, fantasize about, thoughts and experiences. However, you will not tell me what I’m going to do to you. That is a fast way to end a conversation with me.

You’ll do as your asked (within discussed limits of course). This can include some pretty mundane or vanilla requests. If that’s not for you, don’t reach out.

Do not put the onus of finding out more about you onto me. That line “ask me anything you want to know, I’m an open book” is ridiculous. I don’t have time to play 20 questions with every stranger on the internet and asking me to that is rude. You get to tell me about yourself and why you think you’d make a good submissive to me and I’ll ask questions as they come up

How to apply to the position:

Send me a chat with your age, location, a SFW picture, a little bit about you and why you think you’d be a good fit. It doesn’t have to have your full face, I do understand privacy until trust is built but it needs to give me somewhat of an idea of what you look like. You can see all of my info and some photos on my profile bc fair is fair. Bonus points if you have a well filled out profile on here and/or Fetlife.

Responses sent without all of the required parts above will be deleted without a second look. Happy applying 😉