Hi, thanks for taking the time to read my post! I hope its not too long, but I'm really hoping to find a deep connection. I have always had a hopeless romantic nature, having a committed relationship with the right woman is my dream in life. I'm looking to be submissive in my future relationship despite the fact that I am a normal confident/assertive guy in public. Recently I have found a side of me that could try being more sexually dominant if my partner wanted that, but I would be 100% content with being submissive otherwise. I crave a maternal, protective, and controlling personality in my future partner; my brain interprets these behaviors as love. The traits I look for are generally: compassion, intelligence, playfulness, outgoing/talkative, assertive, and natural leadership traits.

I'm a Software Developer by profession. I could see myself as more of a househusband if my partner liked that, although I also enjoy my career so its hard to say one way or another. I am the type to simp and adore my partner, and I would love it if I found someone who enjoyed that about me. I love playing basketball, volleyball, Chess, doing treks, going for a Swim as hobbies. I try to live by the golden rule treat others with love and respect.

I don't want to prioritize kinks since I am looking for a real connection, and I think I would prefer to wait on starting any serious D/s dynamic until we get to know eachother better. That said, I have learned kink compatibility is important and I want to make sure we are a good match. My preferences could be explained as: they are focused on having a partner with a dominant personality, leadership, and preferably someone with physical strength(somewhat) or an aggressive or "smothering" personality. Its a dream of mine if my partner was able to push me around effectively. I think I have a love kink, meaning It turns me on if my partner enjoys doing things that she knows make me fall more hopelessly in love with her. I really want a "normal" romantic relationship, however the idea of a 24/7 dynamic (so that you always have the final say) also seems very appealing. Just to name a few kinks that resonate with me in order of preference: MDLB, behavioral modification, CNC, ANR, mental domination, Pegging, Chastity, Worshipping.

The type of personality I think I would match with is someone with more of an "alpha" personality who likes to lead and be in charge. I would like someone who enjoys playfully putting me in my place on a regular basis. Simple actions that make me feel like im not in control, like you telling me what to do, or grabbing me by the hand and leading me somewhere are all amazing. I would prefer the dynamic to extend beyond the bedroom, but to me that includes me serving and accommodating you even if you dont feel like being particularly dominant on a particular day. I am curious about experiencing a total power exchange dynamic, but I have never experienced anything remotely close to that before.

Physically, I am 6'1", Dark Brown Eyes, Black Hair, Good physical build. I have been told I am attractive, but you be the judge. I work out 2-3 times a week and play some putdoor games to keepyswlf fit. My type (physically) could be described as a woman who takes care of herself, is confidently feminine, and also strong mentally & physically. Even if this physical description doesn't fit you exactly I still hope you will reach out if we seem to match on an emotional and mental level.

I'm praying my person is out there somewhere and finds this post. If you are interested in getting to know eachother please feel free to message me, I enjoy chatting and voice/video calling when you feel comfortable with that :) Thank you for reading!