Hello there nerdy boys!!!
It's nice to meet you. I won't be putting my name here for safety purposes, but for now you can call me Aura. If we talk a bit more I'm happy to share my first name and discord account username.
I want to start off by warning you I get a LOT of messages when I post my ad. I think it’s because I'm a female on the internet. That means I’ll only be able to reply to the people I have interest in, and until we’re talking on a regular basis (like if we have a good vibe going), I can’t give you priority in my life. Also if you send me sexual one liners or dick pictures you will be blocked.
My end goal is a monogamous in-person relationship, but until then, getting to know eachother only and something most likely online. Though if you happen to be closer enough to meet up and hang out, I'd be up for that after some time once I feel safe enough in doing so.
I’m not looking for someone just for sex. I’m not looking for your money. And I’m not really looking for anything short term. I’m looking for someone to potentially spend the rest of my life with. I will make this perfectly clear now.
My priority is a regular female led relationship. Just a relationship. The kink stuff is extra and most likely wont happen until farther on. I'm not up for becoming your 24/7 mommy or keyholder because it makes me feel used. I hope you understand.
BASICS
I'm a 28-year-old cisgender white female. I'm of average height (about 5'6" I think). I am on the thicker side, with big breasts and thick thighs, closer to 260 pounds (photo shows me at 240 weight), but my goal is to get back to 200 pounds. I will never be tiny skinny. I like my breasts and thighs. I just want to be healthier. I've been working on getting my health together but it's a slow process.
I have dirty blonde hair that I usually dye blonde, though I'm growing it back out again to the length of the photo (long). Sometimes I like to have a feather installed or a colored streak, but never anything too fancy. I like wearing dresses that are comfy but still cute.
I am in southern Canada. I am happy to work on something online for the time being. The closer you are, the better. Southern Canada or Michigan would be ideal. But for the long time being it would just be online so I’m willing to talk to farther distance people in Canada and USA only. Just please keep in mind I have very minimal money to travel. I am not interested in people in other countries at this time.
I'm more of the soft dom type. I’m not interested in a mistress/slave type relationship, eternal servitude, or queen worship dynamics. I am not looking to punish, reprimand, extreme bondage, humiliation, or anything like that, although I can give directions. I believe in praise and just being thankful and nice over punishment. Especially not looking for "bratty" types.
My relationships are definitely female-led. I will take charge, so please don't worry too much if you are inexperienced when it comes to dating. I will let you know if I like you or will let you know if things aren't working. I also usually take the lead on flirting and nsfw initiations.
ABOUT ME NON SEXUAL
Definitely introverted, but I have a few close friends I really appreciate. It can take me a bit to warm up since I've been hurt a bit in the past, but if we click well, I'll want to talk to you a lot. I pride myself on being a kindhearted, understanding person who always tries to do what’s right. I'm pretty laid back most of the time and like going with the flow.
I do art for a living!!! I mostly make plushies, though I also do work with another artist to design enamel pins for my business. I have an etsy shop with 1k sales, have run numerous successful kickstarters, and sell at Canadian conventions. I am very driven and love what I do, as it lets me work from home in a creative way, as well as sell online to many fans and sell my works at conventions.
I take deep pride in what I do. I don't make a ton of money - the starving artist life is real - but I am very prideful of the living I do make. Please do not ask me what I do for a living as this has become a common question from people that read my ad despite me being upfront - and it’s frankly kind of insulting. I want people that support my hopes and dreams, even though I won’t ever be rich. I know it won’t be easy but dreams are worth fighting for.
Something I'd REALLY REALLY love is a "partner in crime" to support my dreams. Someone that also likes going to conventions of all types (comic, anime, furry, etc) to help me sell my wares during the day then enjoy ourselves at night.
I have been a part of the furry fandom for 10 years. Before you ask, this is NOT A KINK. That’s why it’s not in the kink section. Furry is a way for many people to express themselves through artwork by creating alternative animal versions of themselves. My entire friend community are furries and it’s how I express myself. I am able to find new friends wherever I go. It’s a pretty cool thing to be a part of. And it would be cool if I ended up finding another gfd furry to date, though not at all necessary. Just thought I’d mention it. You 100% don't have to be a furry.
I also have many nerdy hobbies. I am a big fan of the MCU. I like board games, video games (farming games, cozy games, jackbox), western animation, fantasy books, virtual pet games. I dream of just living my life one day, hosting friends for board game nights and movie nights. I also LOVE conventions, even when I'm not vending at them - furry, anime, and comic cons.
I’m new to GFD. I've had a few small relationships but nothing super serious. I’m still pretty new overall and I am still learning. I may not know all the acronyms. I won't react well if you start off with just kink off the bat. And I may ask you to cool it at times. I'm looking to talk to a person first, and sprinkle in some kink slowly. Please be respectful.
ABOUT ME SEXUAL
Sexual Interests - It is not necessary you are into all of these. I understand everyone has their limits. These are just my absolute favorites <3
- Female Led Relationships. Females taking on the bigger role.
- Teasing. I do tease a lot, in person and online.
- Men that like being told what to do. Some examples: massages, directions during sex, but even out of bedroom stuff like chores. I am just usually the initiator.
- Inexperience/Cumming Quickly/Lots of Blushing/Innocence
- Interest in pegging but never tried
- Interest in chastity but never had the toys to force someone
- Watching guys piss, getting pissed on (Don't want to drink or piss on you)
- Just honestly watching guys cum, Love dick, Love touching dick. Got a bit of a dick worship thing going on haha.
Hard Limits: No Scat, Blood, Injuries, Strong Pain (Beyond Biting/Scratching), Physical Torture, Diapers. Finally, I do not Make Out. I will do lip on lip kissing, but no tongue. This is a strong limit of mine.
Partner Preferences: I do really like pale guys, glasses, but any skinny and chubby guys can also apply. Not really into to muscular guys or super-fit guys since I have asthma and am not super-fit myself. I have no preference for height. No trumpers or antivaxxers.
HOW TO GET A REPLY
Okay. If this is anything like the last time I posted my reply, I will probably get a good amount of replies. I will not be able to reply to everyone. I got like 200 messages within 72 hours last time, but if you want to boost your chances, try to put effort into your reply.
The more info the better. Having a paragraph or two with your age, kinks, things you have in similar, what interested you. All these things catch my attention and make me more likely to reply. IM LOOKING FOR PERSONALITY AND DRIVE!
I reply most often to people with 3 paragraphs, usually the ones who actually end up apologizing for the length. I’m looking for personality!
A picture may also boost your chances, but that's up to you. <3
If you’ve sent a message before, and I didn’t reply, I probably wasn’t interested.
If you aren’t sure to write, here’s a form you can fill out.
Location: CANADA OR USA ONLY
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Note: This ad used to be posted on my main account, but I’ve since made this NSFW account. If you recognize it, that’s why. Please don’t mention my main account’ username here as I’m trying to separate these two accounts to protect my identity.
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