Greetings fellow kinkster,

🙋🏼‍♂️I am an open-minded, easy going, and passionate nerd 🤓. I am single and have no children. I am Lebanese (yay Lebanese cuisine 😋!), and have been living in Europe for 7 years now: 2.5 years in Milan where I pursued my master's degree, and 4.5 years in Paris where I currently work as a software engineer. I like to say that I speak some italian, but hopefully no one's gonna test me on that.

🤾🏼‍♀️On the physical aspect: I am 30 years old. I am 5' 10" (I think, never been a fan of the imperial system to be honest), or for those not in the states, 174 cm tall. Build-wise, I am average I'd say; I do have a tummy, but I'm working hard on getting rid of it (at least exercise-wise... Diet-wise, not as easy, being weak-willed and all 😞). I do workout regularly, but don't do cardio because I find it so damn boring, and therefore lack the motivation to persevere.

🏓SFW interests: A pianist 🎹 since I was 7 or so (so 23 years so far), currently mostly play music I enjoy (songs, anime/movie soundtracks, etc...) as I don't have the time/energy to tackle classical pieces like in the good old days. I even have a YouTube channel (but mostly for safekeeping purposes). Other than that, I'm an avid gamer, I watch anime and movies, everything pop-culture really, if I deem it interesting enough. I also enjoy board games, be it co-op or adversial. I try to keep up to date on all the newest technologies (partly due to the nature of my job), but also because I am deeply interested; I am one of those fortunate enough to actually enjoy what they do for a living, and it's on of the biggest blessings one can hope for. I enjoy scientific discussions, as well as philosophical ones; some of the deepest ones I've had were at 4 am, with complete strangers, while tipsy, sitting on a sidewalk.

🔍What I am looking for: Ideally, I would want to find a lifetime partner. I don't know how realistic that is, or if this is the right place to find that, but hey, this is just another way of *putting myself out there*. That being said, I also would welcome a femdom relationship, be it in-person or online. I am a deeply submissive individual, and therefore, I don't feel like everything is right with the universe if I don't get to express that side of me. Therefore, if you're based in/around Paris, that would be the dream. If you're anywhere else in the world, you're still more than welcome to drop a message.

As I've never been in a femdom relationship, I'm not sure how to organize a split between what happens inside/outside the bedroom. Is femdom supposed to be limited to the bedroom? Can it be also be part of my everyday life? Ideally, I'd go for the latter, but I have a lot to learn in this aspect.

💖In terms of kinks, I did have a few relationships with online mistresses, which allowed me to better understand what tickles my fancy:

Obedience & Training: I'm a submissive, so naturally, I derive pleasure from obeying my domme. I would love to see myself change under her guidance, be it physically or psychologically. I love the idea of my domme shaping me, little by little, transforming me into whatever she decides is the "perfect" version of me is. If I were to take things to the extreme, I would say my domme would be able to change the way I think, behave, even the way I perceive my own gender and sexuality, and the way I express them. Naturally, all is done in a safe/sane/consensual manner, but the idea of having so much trust in my domme that I can literally put my identity and my fate in her hands excites me to no end.

Sissificaiton: I don't look like it, but I'm most definitely a sissy at heart. I just want to be wrapped in silk/satin, and to be told that it's okay to feel happy about it.

TPE: Not sure how this can apply in an online relationship, but the idea of complete, unquestionable, ultimate authority does seem appealing.

Cuckolding/ForcedBi: This plays to the point I mentioned earlier, about my domme tweaking my perception of my own gender/sexuality to her liking.

Blackmail/Tech domination: Admittedly, this is on the darker/more controversial end of kinks, and it's by no means a hard requirement. It just adds a layer of control, and in my head at least, it gives my domme an additional tool she can use to push my limits. Moreover, as a tech enthusiast, and as someone who has given college-level lectures on internet security (as an teaching assistant mind you), I love the idea of someone seducing/tricking/forcing me to go against the very principles I taught others.

Secret/Hidden public play: This one is kind of self-explanatory; the risk of getting caught would make me shake in my boots, in the best way possible. I definitely don't want to be arrested for public indecency though, or step on anyone's toes, hence the hidden aspect.

🙏🏼Above all, as a submissive, I am definitely on the gentler side of femdom, and I want my domme to be pleased, satisfied, happy. Therefore, I am only interested in kinks that interest her as well. I would hate to be selfish in any way, and doing something that doesn't bring *her* pleasure, first and foremost, would simply defeat the purpose.

🛑Limits-wise, I'm definitely not interested in pain, especially intense pain. I understand that pain can be a punishment, and if my domme deems me deserving of it, I would obey her. That being said, I would never go seeking it, or disobey her hoping for a physical punishment. Based on that, blood and any permanent marks would be hard limits as well, and so is scat. Pee is a soft limit, and my feelings towards involving it would depend greatly on the situation. Lastly, I am not interested in findom/involving money, not for the forseeable future at least. I'm a bit traumatized from all of the fin/femdom posts I'm seeing on social networks, but this is not the place to discuss this.

🛣 This has been quite a ride, and I actually learned about myself writing this, as I got to verbalize my thoughts and feelings. I do thank you, dear reader, for accompanying me, and if this ad does peak your interest, please don't hesitate to reach out, no matter what you're looking for, or what your gender/sexuality are. One can never have too many friends.

References can be provided upon request.