Hi there!

Just a big ol' softie who likes cuddling, D&D and being called names here looking to meet a woman with whom to chat about life, hopes, dreams, and if there's interest, to eventually explore and discuss a potential FLR or D/s dynamic.

If you're new and interested in exploring your dominant side I may be a good fit for you!

About Me

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood area. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, Broad shouldered and on the bigger side. I have short brown hair and facial hair to match. - A pic of me for the interested: https://imgur.com/a/Iw5zhka

My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or Video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), Tinkering (Fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices.), movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

I believe I have a lot to offer a partner both in and outside of a dynamic and wish to be given the chance to be the best person I can be for another. I am honest, Loyal, Dutiful, Kind, Affectionate, and will always aim to please. I am, of course, nowhere near perfect. But I have a longing to grow and hope I can do so with someone special.

My primary love languages are physical touch and Acts of Service. I enjoy feeling and being made to feel submissive in and out of the bedroom. The feeling of satisfaction that I get from pleasing another person and being praised for that service is so wonderful and freeing to me. I yearn to be a good partner for someone and to be molded into the person they can depend on when they need me most.

Who I am seeking

I am seeking someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises. They are strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. Someone kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and titillate. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

I would love to meet and talk with someone who has similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies and interests. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things!

To be clear, ultimately I am looking for a relationship where equal partnership outside of kink is important to both of us. I would prefer to start with conversation and foster a friendship. Then if there's a spark we can and figure out how a dynamic would work for the both of us from there.

NSFW Section

Below is a list of my likes/limits and things I'm curious about/soft limits (Denoted wth an asterisk) - None of these are must haves. I just wanted to include a robust list of this info so people can compare their interests to my own.

Kinks and Curious Abouts(*):

• Performing acts of service/submission

• Discipline training (Things for daily routine and general submission. Sets of rules and mandatory "Good morning" messages or other things deemed necessary by the dominant.)

• Giving and receiving praise or words of affirmation.

• Goddess/body worship.

• Tease and denial.

• (*)chastity

• (*)prostate/anal training

• Orgasm control (Including JOI/CEI and edging/ruined/forced orgasms)

• Roleplay/creative writing as part of submission

• Light pain/Impact Play

• Playful humiliation/name calling or pet names.

• Anything you may wish to include (With discussion)

Limits:

• extreme pain/CBT
• extreme public humiliation or degradation.
• Asphyxiation
• cutting/scarification or blood play
• Bestiality
• Race play
• Watersports/Scat/Vomit
• Blackmail
• FinDom

Thank you for your time reading and giving me your attention.