I want something more than just sex. I want someone I can trust, someone I can love. So, who am I? Well, I'm 6'4 and the biggest guy in just about every room I enter, but I'm truly just a soft guy. I have a big personality, too. I'm always laughing and joking, listening to others, and learning new things. Honestly, it's hard to describe myself.

I can, though, clearly picture what I want from a relationship. I want a two way street: respect, communication, generosity, and love flowing both ways. I need lots of love, and I have a lot give back. If you enjoy humiliation etc, I do too, but only in the bedroom. There's an old TV show called Maude (one of the first hits starring a female lead). In one episode her husband tells her, "you tell me all the time you want to feel possessed." Her reply: "I never said that standing up and you know it." I feel the same way. Fun, creative, and intense play in the bedroom is one thing, genuine meanness and spite is another and not a healthy way to view a partner.

So what does a fun night, or day look like to me. Well, I want someone who wants to be pleased. Let me cook for you, make you a playlist, write you an erotic short story, or really anything. I'm definitely a movie lover, and watching together would surely make me melt. Honesly, I'm down for just about any date night. Trivia? Board games? Walk in the park? Long ass phone call? They're all options. I want someone I can talk too, and of course listen too. Tell me about your day, your opinions, your dreams, and, please, let me tell you about mine.

If you made it this far I thank you so much for your time. I'm not sure what else to say except that, if I sound interesting I hope to hear from you. If you reply, ask whatever you want, and share whatever. I got the chance to in this post, and so should you, I think.