*Adding this with emphasis on what I am looking for since most messages I received from my last post were cybersex/online play or nearby hook up requests...

** Looking for someone in their late 20s-30s. I am NOT seeking online sex talk; I am seeking to date with the goal of a serious, committed relationship that would lead to cohabitation. Meeting is a must. If the idea of such a relationship sounds unappealing, please don't message me. Must be living in Netherlands or willing to relocate to Netherlands within the near future. **

I have been seeking a relationship on-and-off for a good while now, and recently decided to give up on OLD until I stumbled upon this subreddit, haha.

I am rather dominant and I prefer FLR. I am also affectionate, enjoy giving praise, and I do take my partner into consideration. I am not afraid to be emotionally vulnerable, I am not afraid of love, I am not afraid to say that I have had a lot of sexual experiences/a good few long term relationships, and decided that hooking up isn't nearly as satisfying as the comforts of love. I am empathetic, supportive, and though I am dominant, I believe collaboration and team work are important factors in a relationship. I seek an emotionally available submissive sweetheart who enjoys giving to a self-assured woman, sexually and non-sexually, with the goal of romance and eventual, near-future cohabitation. Something healthy, chill, and fun. If you are not in NL, you must be willing to relocate here. You must prefer large women for I am voluptuous and that will not change.

About me, a BBW:

I am 5ft short, with large breasts and a round, fat belly. I am a dual citizen of America and Ireland , having lived 9 years thus far within the EU. I have been living in NL for almost a year now. Currently, I am studying social science with the hope of becoming a case manager in a social work setting. A few of my hobbies include playing Nintendo, gardening, learning Dutch, and sightseeing within Europe. I enjoy weekend adventures, camping, bonfires, and watching meteor showers. I've a 14 years old small dog who is my BFF. I enjoy fostering animals and whenever I see an animal in need, I always make the time to assist. My look is a bit alternative; I tend to wear cheap, black clothes from thrift stores. I have some tattoos/piercings(tongue/nose) and I've colourful, short hair. I rarely wear makeup, I don't feel insecure wearing shorts if I haven't shaved, I grow my armpit hair out. I'm a goth at heart and don't walk around with a constant smile on my face. :-p

The sexy stuff:

I have a high sex drive and I enjoy spontaneous sex, whether it be in nature, road head, a sensual shower session, having my ass worshiped as I prepare dinner, etc. I like dirty talk and I like to do subtle naughty things such as groping quickly and discretely in a public setting and/or slapping a sub's booty playfully. It really turns me on when a man gets off to the pleasure he gives. To watch his eyes light up as he folds me like origami, having me cum on his cock over and over again. It brings me great joy to have my way with a man's ass in the forms of anal training, rimming, and sticking fingers inside. I would like to become more experienced in pegging(big time fantasy) and tying. It is fun to smother with my fat, whether that be between my thick thighs or between my large breasts. I like to gently put my hands on a man's neck and tease him with some name calling as I ride him. Height contrast and facial hair are my ultimate weaknesses, physically.

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What to include in your first message:
Age, country you live in, how long have you been single/how long have you been dating with the hopes to enter a committed relationship that would one day lead to cohabitation, do you have a preference for BBW(fat women)/are you a fat admirer(if the answer is no, don't message me), a bit about yourself. If you try turning the conversation sexual quickly or you go on about fetishes in great detail, but fail to discuss other aspects of yourself with such enthusiasm, I may not respond.

Addressing the most commonly asked question I've received: For the record, it's probably best not to ask an immigrant why they left their home country or the last country they lived. People usually don't leave all they know and leave nearly all possessions behind just for fun. So you can imagine, asking such questions isn't light-hearted😅 Save it for when you know someone well.