here's me. I'd really appreciate it if you led with a photo as well just to get it out of the way. More pics in my profile ;)

If you're searching 'Seattle' and this post comes up, that means I'm still looking! I'll keep it up until I no longer am. Also apologies if you've seen me around here before haha, I'm trying to space my posts out so as not to spam

I do want to specify that I identify more as a bottom than a sub, I've been doing online stuff for a while so I actually know myself pretty well and I'm not total fresh meat, if that's a concern for you. One thing I've found is that this a much more accurate way of describing myself. I was really excited when I found this community and started identifying as a sub, but pretty quickly ran into problems doing tasks and all that, so if you're really into the control and ownership, be warned that stuff is difficult for me. I understand the appeal of it and I don't at all want to seem like I'm being negative, but it's just not usually my thing. Unless I build up a deep level of trust and affection with the person, but that's probably a given.

One other important thing I've noticed is that there's two main types of femdom: Sub focused vs Domme focused. Mostly based on who is the center of attention. Either you prefer teasing/touching/fucking a boy, or making him worship or do things that focus on your pleasure. I'm the former, which means I'm not personally into worshiping a goddess or anything like that. Again, I see the appeal, it's just not my thing personally. I like being overwhelmed with attention and praise and physical touch :p

I am a virgin full disclosure, that's mostly because I used to be quite overweight and had pretty rough skin. I've finally gotten to a point where I feel okay about both those things though, so I'm feeling pretty ready to get out and be my slutty self. I've got a skincare routine and I'm only about 10lbs over where I'd like to be, but I have abs now :D In the right light at least haha. I feel a bit weird posting that because I still have some chub though. If it makes any difference, that's a body type I really like on girls! :D Would be fun to get fit together!

A bit more about me, I'm currently working at a pizza place! l cook and/or bake every day, and I'd love to do it for you :) One of my cheesy non-kinky fantasies is to print out a breakfast menu to give to my lovely top, so she can pick out an item for me to make her in the morning. I want to start making home-made boba style drinks soon as well, so I could use a guinea pig

My real passion is in art though, I went to school for it in Canada, and now after long last I'm finally using it to make a little indie pixel game! Very exciting stuff, would be thrilled to share! I'd love to have someone in my life to do lots of drawings and maybe even painting of :)

Down to business, kink wise, I have a few that I know I'm into despite being a virgin:

1. Pegging/butt stuff. I'm kind of obsessed with it, this is pretty much the only hard 'requirement' I think. I have a couple toys, and I'd love for someone to use them on me. I think some wires got crossed in my social programming at some point, and now I want to be the housewife that cooks dinner and gets fucked lol. I feel a bit embarrassed to admit the full extent of my passion for pegging, but suffice it to say I'm very very into it.

2. My interest in feminization or cross dressing is directly proportional to yours. If you're not into it, I'm not, because it's no fun at all that way. If it's your favorite thing, it's my favorite thing.

3. Group stuff- Hope this isn't weird or anything, but I have met another enm girl on reddit who wants to try a three person discord voice chat, and if we vibe potentially meeting up to spitroast the virginity out of me. If that ends up happening I could and probably would immediately die happy :p if that sounds like your kind of vibe, definitely shoot me a message! She's rad. Also I do have two harnesses already so I got that part figured out.

4. I'm probably bisexual on some level, still figuring it out naturally. But especially with online chats, I literally can't get enough of dirty forced bi fantasies lol. Just be warned if you live somewhere else but still want to talk online, it'll inevitably turn into me fantasizing about dicks with you haha. This goes into the last point, at some point I'll want to try it irl, it would help to have some moral support ;)

5. Breath play, nothing dangerous or hardcore really. I just notice that things feel awesome when I hold my breath, and they would probably feel even better if someone else was holding my breath for me

6. Praise/Degradation, these two things often come together I've noticed. I like being called a good boy just as much as I like being called a dirty slut :D

Please don't hesitate to message me if you're interested! I always like to chat even if we're not a perfect match! I'm open to a lot of different things, fwb, committed relationship, I'm of course open to all levels of experience and a range of ages. I would want to date someone within a few years of myself, but if it's a more casual or fwb thing, I'm definitely willing to flex on that. I do like the dynamic with a woman whose older than me, and I'd absolutely LOVE to share a bumbling, awkward first experience with another virgin :)