Introduction:

Hi! I'm B, a 27 year old guy currently living in NW London in the UK.

I'm using a throwaway account for this because it's 100% SFW over on my main, and because well it's rather embarrassing. Making this post isn't the embarrassing part just to be clear, I mean some of the bad jokes and memes I've made over on the other account are just too shamefully awful to share with people who might want to talk to me here.

That being said I'm a very open person and I'm happy to share things about myself (within reason of course, you can ask 100 times over for my chocolate truffles recipe but I'm sorry you can't have it).

I've included what I hope is enough information about myself below but if you'd like more then all you need to do is ask, and I'd also be happy to learn more about anyone who might reach out to me as well.

What I'm looking for:

I'm ideally looking to find a caring but assertive domme for online chat and play at first which would move into meeting up in person, if we get along well then I might be happy to keep things online (if we're too far away from eachother for meeting in person to be viable).

There are more details on it below but for some aspects of things I'm honestly not sure what I'm after due to my lack of experience as a sub.

I suppose to put it neatly but also in a way that's functionally useless for narrowing anything down, I'm looking for someone who I can bring fulfilment to who can also fulfil me, but emotionally, not my butt.

Vanilla me:

Personality: I'm a considerate, friendly, compassionate, and playful person who is primarily driven by my anxiety and my desire to make others happy.

Hobbies: cooking, various crafty arty bits (mostly painting and some clay sculpting), gaming, puns, music/films/shows.

Random selection of things I like: butterflies, owls, cuddles, the idea of being an all powerful dimension shifting wizard, fun facts, even more cuddles, chocolate, lychees, onigiri, pizza, the lack of hunger I'm currently feeling after taking a break from writing this to get something to eat, discussions of ethical quandaries, making things for people, space.

Strawberry Kinky me:

General/experience:

I'm a switch as mentioned in the title, with most of my experience there being on my dominant side.

I've only had two in person experiences as a submissive, the first failed spectacularly because of just generally poor communication between myself and the other person due to inexperience and the second one could never work out because the other person turned out to be a Nickelback fan.

Physical details:

I'm 5'7, have hazel eyes, short-ish black hair, white and pale as an anaemic ghost, skinny with a bit of belly I'm working on, and a decent amount of body hair.

Likes:

Cuddles/physical contact. I'm a very physically affectionate person generally and it's something I enjoy in the bedroom (or whichever room really) as well. If it was down to me I'd spend every waking minute in snuggly oblivion. I cannot overstate how much I love hugs, snugs, and cuddles.

Edging/orgasm control/forced orgasms. I have very limited experience being on the receiving end of this but I'm reasonably sure I'd enjoy exploring it more. This doesn't extend to orgasm denial or ruined orgasms.

Being wanted/desired. Whether as a person, a pillow, or just as a cum dispenser, I want to feel wanted.

Being on the bottom. I absolutely adore being on the bottom whether for snugs or sex. It ties into wanting to be wanted as the person on top is taking me, and also my want to be controlled.

Being cared for. I never want to feel like I'm a worthless bug, I'm most definitely not into that and I'm kind of saddened by how many people seem to think that being a dominant just involves insulting people and acting like a generally nasty person (no kink shaming for people who are into that though of course). I want to form a healthy bond with my domme and to me that involves mutual trust, and care.

Body worship. It depends on the part of the body in particular but flexible depending on the partner.

Curious to try:

Bondage/tie and tease.

Assertive sex, maybe not quite to the degree of CNC but more someone knowing what they want and taking it, the idea of someone pinning me down and riding me to climax is a pretty big fantasy of mine.

Being blindfolded.

Roleplay (I have experience with roleplay, but in this case I moreso mean roleplay specifically as a submissive for the sake of exploring kinks and fantasies that I or my partner has)

Hard limits:

Anal play on me.

Scat/piss/blood/knife/etc play, anything involving disgust or danger.

Forced bi.

Humiliation.

Pain beyond the light kind.

Conclusion/communication/conclusmmiation:

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to hearing from any interested dommes, whether they want to get in contact to get to know me better or just to defend Nickelback.

I primarily use Discord and Whatsapp for talking to people but I'm happy to use whichever method for communication works best for you, except interpretative dance, I've got two left feet and they just aren't right for dancing.