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22 [M4F] #California #Online - soft feminine asian boy looking for genuine love
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DGJett is a male age 22 looking for a female in California
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Hi there! I'm a what I would consider soft & feminine boy (though I certainly don't dress that way, I wear all black typically..) looking for a genuine friendship where best case scenario: we're so compatible we'd want to be together forever!

Ultimately, but not necessarily immediately: I'd want this person to be somebody I can hold a very deep connection with. Ultimately the goal is to find somebody to enjoy moments of living with as well as the rough spots where we can support each other until the very end. A good partner/friend is somebody who you can always tell good and bad news to. Our relationship must not be a one-way street of respect where one is superior to the other.

  • About me: "It is enough to live a life, with love until we die" I'm a 22 year old in university. I'm in my 4th year but I'm staying one more year, I am currently prioritizing my mental health. Speaking of mental health, I've been constantly dealing with depression for the past few years but thankfully I feel like I'm past my lowest point (At least I hope so). I'm actively trying to improve myself and I go to therapy weekly. I'm a 5'11 asian (chinese/vietnamese) male, with somewhat long black hair (long for boys but short for girls). Dark brown eyes and I wear glasses, and I consider myself a little chubby, but everyone tells me otherwise. I mostly wear all black but I do have interest in dressing more in soft colors one day.
  • My personality? It's hard to say, I think some words that define me are really soft-hearted/understanding of others, logical/methodical(?), modest. If you know some psychology, I'm an ESFP-T; in relation to the Big 5, I'm middle-high in openness, around middle-low for consciousness, also middle-high in extraversion. I am high in agreeableness, and I'm also high in neuroticism.
  • kinks/sexual/love: i'm not too experienced, in fact barely experienced. but i do know that i prefer the more gentle type of love. i love affirmations, reassurance and the like (i might have a praise kink???? genuinely unsure). i get flustered extremely easily if you were to compliment me or anything like that. typically i lean onto more of the vanilla side on sex & all other than gentle fdom. but don't get me wrong, i enjoy slighty more rough-ish fdom too just... no humiliation, no physical violence, etc... i'm not into pegging or anything hardcore (except for cnc....), though my mind remains open for anything i haven't tried yet.

Looking for: I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for, but some green flags and some dealbreakers I have are:

  • green flags
    • emotional intelligence
    • intellectual humility
    • kindness/caring/affectionate
    • optimism
  • deal breakers
    • resentful
    • consistent negativity: a decent ex. is judgmental people who talk behind people's back too much
    • having no/little respect for my needs or boundaries.
    • I don't judge people for their weight but I know that I have a preference for somebody on the thinner side, I don't mind a little bit of weight like me but anything more is a little unpreferable for me. (I wish I didn't have this preference it's not something i want to have)

Lastly, please feel free to message me any questions you may have at all! I'd be happy to answer them.

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