Hello there fellow subs, doms and dommes. You can call me Alan! This is a #serious post for serious folks so I'm going to section out my ad.

About me: I am a single person with no emotional baggage free of a long term relationship for over a year and ready to stretch my legs after some personal betterment and exploration. I am a degreed engineer by trade who is science minded at work. For play, I'm a semi-professional musician with symphony work experience and spend most of my free time appreciating performance art. I love art in all its forms, cooking, games, music, novels, stage, movies, or dance. I also race sail boats, which is a very niche hobby and hard to explain. Physically I'm 5'11, look best in a soft winter pallette, take care of my skin and present masculine. Short brown beard with blonde highlights and a nice smooth dome framed by hazel eyes. I go to the gym often though I am not "fit" at the moment but I am taking physical fitness seriously in my life. I would like a partner to participate in my gym habit as getting sweaty is fun for two!

What I'm looking for: A long term relationship led by a dominant. I connect best with femme presenting people, though this is more personality based than purely physical. I would prefer irl but I am open to online play. My caveat to online relationships would be that I would prefer longer contact time and scenes, not one-off encounters.

My ideal partner: Single, preferably childless and monogamous outside any heavily negotiated scenework. My partner can be male, female, trans, enby, it doesn't matter to me. I am attracted to the person first, the body second.

My kinks: FLR, tpe, lifestyle, cbt, masochism, rules and structure, spanking and impact, gentle humiliation and embarrassment, tease and denial, pegging, bondage, rope bunny, water sports

Limits: findom, heavy emotional degradation, blood, scat, cutting, breath play, age play (below 18)

I am willing to provide pictures to anyone that connects with me to verify and I prefer initial contact via reddit. Dms or chat, whichever strikes you! Hope to hear from you luvs.