here's me. I'd really appreciate it if you led with a photo as well just to get it out of the way. More pics in my profile :)

If you're searching 'Seattle' and this post comes up, that means I'm still looking! I'll keep it up until I no longer am. Also apologies if you've seen me around here before haha, I'm trying to space my posts out so as not to spam :p

I should specify that I identify more as a bottom than a sub, I've been doing online stuff for a while and found that it's a much more accurate way of describing myself. I was really excited when I found this community and started identifying as a sub, but pretty quickly ran into problems doing tasks and all that, so if you're really into the control and ownership, be forewarned that stuff is difficult for me. I understand the appeal of it and I don't at all want to seem like I'm being negative, but it's just not usually my thing. Unless I build up a deep level of trust and affection with the person, but that's probably a given.

The virgin thing is mostly because I used to be quite overweight and had pretty rough skin, but I've finally gotten to a point where I feel okay about both those things. I've got a skincare routine and I'm only about 10lbs over where I'd like to be, but I have abs now :D In the right light at least haha

A bit more about me, I used to be employed as a line cook, and I still cook and/or bake every day! I'd love to do it for you :) One of my cheesy non-kinky fantasies is to print out a breakfast menu to give to my lovely top, so she can pick out an item for me to make her in the morning. I want to start making home-made boba style drinks soon as well, so I could use a guinea pig :p

My real passion is in art though, I went to school for it in Canada, and now after long last I'm finally using it to make a little indie pixel game! Very exciting stuff, would be thrilled to share! I'd love to have someone in my life to do lots of drawings and maybe even painting of :)

Kink wise, I have a few that I know I'm into despite being a virgin:

1. Pegging/butt stuff. I'm kind of obsessed with it, this is pretty much the only hard 'requirement' I think. I have a couple toys, and I'd love for someone to use them on me. I think some wires got crossed in my social programming at some point, and now I want to be the housewife that cooks dinner and gets fucked lol. I feel a bit embarrassed to admit the full extent of my passion for pegging, but suffice it to say I'm very very into it.

2. Breath play, nothing dangerous or hardcore really. I just notice that things feel awesome when I hold my breath, and they would probably feel even better if someone else was holding my breath for me

3. Praise/Degradation, these two things often come together I've noticed. I like being called a good boy just as much as I like being called a dirty slut :D

4. Light pain stuff, mostly just curious about this one. Light stuff like scratching or slapping, no whips or anything

Please don't hesitate to message me if you're interested! I always like to chat even if we're not a perfect match! I'm open to a lot of different things, fwb, committed relationship, I'm hesitantly curious about group stuff, and I'm of course open to all levels of experience and a range of ages. I would want to date someone within a few years of myself, but if it's a more casual or fwb thing, I'm definitely willing to flex on that. I do like the dynamic with a woman whose older than me, and I'd absolutely LOVE to share a bumbling, awkward first experience with another virgin :)