I am looking for a dominant partner for a long-term connection. I'm hoping to find someone local, but I'm open to online as well. I wish to be able to add this type of connection back into my life, be able to explore it more, and continue learning. It is something that has been missing for far too long. I am also looking for a mentor style relationship that doesn't need to have a full dynamic with it.

I am a switch, but do not switch inside a dynamic once it is established. I'm also poly and have a submissive partner right now. I'm 5'9", a little extra around the middle (working on that), brown hair, short beard, and hazel eyes.

Outside of the bedroom, I enjoy gaming of all kinds, hockey, movies, reading, traveling, and just hanging out in good company. I drink socially and smoke a cigar a couple times a year. I am pet free and live on my own. I am a vet and current EMT. I do work full-time, but I can text throughout most of the day.

Kinkwise, I'm very open-minded and into most things. I have been in the lifestyle for about 14 years to various degrees of activity, but I am looking to dive back into the deep end.

My favorite kinks are bondage, rope, puppy play, humiliation, chastity, rough body play, power exchange, toys, plugs, public play, blindfolds, and more. I do tend to lean toward the service submission as well as the dirtier side of things than simple pain.

My biggest limits are no financial exchange or urethral insertions. I am working on building up my pain tolerance, but right now heavy pain is a soft limit. Needles don't do anything for me, and blood makes me think of work, so not into those either.

I am currently working on getting in shape, learning more about cooking, learning to tie rope, and getting better at ice skating. Any help with these goals is greatly appreciated.

I am always interested in meeting other military/veterans or health care personnel. Open to all races, body types, and ages able to legally get a drink in a bar.

Thank you for your time and consideration. I hope to hear from you soon.