Hello my dear reader.
As a tldr, I'm an inexperienced virgin submissive who's looking to do pretty much "anything" with a domme. Examples of "anything"? Well it could range from a one time chat, to a real life date, to a casual friendship shooting the shit over discord. If you're interested in "anything" then please keep reading. It is a lengthy thing, so feel free to skip or skim what disinterests you.
Appearance: I'm 22, 6'0" foot/1.85 m. I have long brown hair, greyish blue eyes, white skin, a beard (optional) and a relatively fit body type. I work out thrice a week, mostly focusing on weights and cardio. Clothing wise I mostly wear black and maroon red, transitioning from a hoodie phase into cute sweaters and turtlenecks.
I'll share pictures of my body, but will only show my face or nude images with someone willing to do the same.
SFW Interests: In many ways I'm rather nerdy. I enjoy reading a lot, mostly YA fantasy with the occasional mix of more traditional fantasy and sci fi. I enjoy anime but mostly manga, absolutely loving tragic and dramatic romance. I spend a lot of my time on videogames, though have started cutting down on it in more recent times. I run a weekly game of Dungeons & Dragons for my friends, and play in yet another one. I also love interesting people, and conversing with them, I'd love to hear about all your little eccentricities.
I'm currently between jobs, having graduated with an IT degree a year ago, doing odd jobs since then and looking to get into university after the summer, or find a job before then.
What I'm looking for: As said, "Anything." A domme to hang out and play games with, to occasionally chat with, to get into a serious online relationship with, to meet once irl for a cup of coffee, to get into an irl relationship with.
Someone cruel and sadistic, or gentle and kind. Someone who's responsible, understands the dangerous of BDSM and keeps them in mind. Someone who's an actual sociopath, who will absolutely ruin my life.
I am open to anything, really. But yes of course I have a preference:
I'd like to meet someone who's responsible, who's a serious domme that wants to play out this little game. Someone who's not an absolute monster, but a little sadistic, a little cruel. But also someone who can let the mask slip, and just be casual from time to time. And most importantly, someone who's not in a hurry, someone down to chat and call, tease and talk before delving into things.
NSFW Interests: I am a sub, despite being a virgin I know this. There's not an ounce of dom or switch in me. I'm a sub both in and out of the bedroom, I don't like being in charge, I don't like to make too many choices, I like supporting my friends, propping them up to be better.
But I'm inexperienced, there are many things I think I'd like, and there are things I think I know I like. But in reality I don't know, it's one thing to read about a kink in erotica, it's another to have someone standing over you with a strap-on. So take everything that follows with a grain of salt, and know that the list is far from exhaustive. After all, there must also be many things I don't know I like~
Anyway, in no particular order:
Bondage: My first kink, any sort of restraint, be it extreme or light. I've never experienced the true helplessness of practicing bondage with a partner, but I've quite literally dreamed of it.
Humiliation: Being made to feel lesser than you. It could be gentle and loving, in a "low expectations" kind of way, or harsh and dehumanizing.
General control: Being told to do things, even little things like what to wear, eat, do, etc. I don't expect you to be all domme all the time, but I love even tiny aspects of control.
Voice: This is a strange one, and more of an attraction than a kink. I love people's voices, how someone sounds tends to be more important than what someone looks like for me. Deep voices, gentle voices, harsh voices, accents, there's not one thing I love, each voice has it's own kind of beauty, though there are some ugly ones as well sadly -.-
Pain: Punishment, impact, pinches and clamps, strikes and swats, heat, cold, all of it. Masochism is hard to explain, many have done it before, much better than I ever could. In short, I like some pain, it could be just a little spice, or so much that it brings tears to my eyes. (However I'm not as much into cbt type pain.)
Rules: Married with pain mentioned above this, rules and punishments. Things to do, and repercussions for not doing them. They could be tasks, they could be as simple as using a honorific.
Possession: I want to be yours. To belong to you, for you to want me in some way, and keep others from me. A possessiveness perhaps.
You might perhaps notice very few physical, directly sexual kinks. The reason for that should be obvious, again, virgin. But it perhaps also comments on my sexuality, BDSM is almost synonymous with sex for me, the image of someone tied down or being hit is perhaps more arousing than naked images.
As for hard limits, there are a few. Any permanent injuries, bathroom things like scat and pee, cuckolding, diapers, making me eat my cum/cei.
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